cotton candy
Fandom terms have to sound silly, like blorbo or squick, because fandom needs humbling. Not a lot. But just every so often you need a good grounding reminder that all of this is literally made up nonsense for fun.
If you take a fictional thing so seriously that silly words genuinely annoy you, you've gone too far and you need to dial it back.
so wild that jkr calls herself a feminist when you can read harry potter and the three categories of women that exist are “air headed and emotional” (giggling and gossiping, crying when upset) “mean” (and therefore ugly/fat/manly) and “mothers” (nagging and annoying yet loveable even tho they aren’t classically beautiful)
Happiness Will Come To You.
All laios ships are good but laios's crush on marcille is very canon and cute.
There's only one person that makes laios act like a blushy teenage boy in love. And that person isn't toshiro, nor is it kabru or chilchuck.
Marcille is the only person who can make him all shy and bashful. And it's downright adorable.
have you ever been 15 and there's this guy who's obsessed with you and you don't know why but you figure, it's only because he thinks he can't have you and honestly he's a bit of an arsehole but mostly towards your best friend. and yes, your best friend doesn't always act right but you've known him since you were kids and you know he can be good and he is, he so often is, but hangs out with the wrong people, that's it. but then he goes and betrays your trust completely and you can never forgive him because you told him so many times that he needed to open his eyes but he never did. and actually the arsehole who's obsessed with you is the opposite. he listens, he changes. and you start to realise, he knows you. while you ignored him (for all the good reasons) he's been paying attention and knows what you like, what you're like, and what you think is right or wrong. and he wants to be good for you, the best version of himself, so you give him a chance and you start dating and all of a sudden you're involved in his friend group that is not really a polycule but is certainly extremely codependent? happened to my good friend lily evans