I think we need to shed some light on the reason why Joo Yeo Jeong was an integral character in Dong Eun's revenge and journey to self-healing and why they are meant to be together — that is because he understands her need for revenge.
He validates her feelings and is willing to join her in the hunt not only because he's going through a similar experience but because they both need something in their life, and that's justice.
When he saw all of her burned scars, he was enraged and immediately felt her pain. There was a burning feeling in him when he saw those "injuries", not just because he likes this girl — in which he's truly crazy about — but because he just understand that those injuries won't heal without justice and without bringing back her glory once again.
This was his biggest difference with Ha Do Yeong, who made the decision to stay with Yeon-jin after his last dinner with Dong-eun and seeing the scars. He's still interested and curious about her, and he feels bad about what has happened to her and couldn't believe it all — but he can not see her need for revenge. He's concerned, but thinks it was a pointless obsession gaining very little in the end — and other people may think similarly to him, but no — for Dong-eun it was justice and to Yeo-jeong it was her way to move forward with her life as a 19 year old. I think this understanding is similar to any political movement, when the other side pressures the other side to move on and forget because they believe it was pointless, but to the other side it was justice and hope and their glory.
You are going to laugh until your stomach hurts again. You're going to be in awe of a sunset. Watch your favorite show while you eat your favorite food. Find money on the street. Discover a great band you haven't heard of before. You will find your way back.
stop ignoring yourself. fix your posture, get a new hair cut, do your nails, take care of your skin, brush your teeth, drink water, eat foods that give you energy. get strong, stop looking sloppy. when you feel good, you do good. invest in yourself.
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ making your bed
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ cooking yourself a meal
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ cleaning your space
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ making yourself a smoothie
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ writing monthly goals
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ getting your nails and hair done
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ yoga
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ prayer
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ reading
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ stretching
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ exercising
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ journaling
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ gardening
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ meditation
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ taking a bath
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ spending time in nature
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ positive self-talk
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ keeping a gratitude list
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ daily mantra
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ make a vision board
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ compliment yourself
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ read self-help books
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ write yourself a love letter
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ positive sticky notes
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ watch a motivational speech
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ dance
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ stretch
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ do your hair
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ get a massage
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ move your body
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ a skin-care routine
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ treat yourself
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ enroll in a new class
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ buy a new plant (or some flowers)
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ invest in a hobby
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ try a new perfume
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ make a self-care kit
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ invest in your closet
·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ take yourself on a trip
(images are from pinterest)
im the only one who can put myself through school, im the only one who can earn myself those straight As, i'm the only one who can create a new life for myself in spite of my circumstances. if i dont do it nobody will. so my only options are to persist and make it happen, or settle for a life i don't even want.
i know we're all sick of self-care being a marketing tactic now, but i don't think a lot of us have any other concept of self-care beyond what companies have tried to sell us, so i thought i'd share my favorite self-care hand out
brought to you by how mad i just got at a Target ad
BTW, happy new year Tumblr! <3
So, we all can agree that smartness is so hot then how do someone becomes smart or knowledgeable? Let's make an attempt to make it more clear for you.
Read books. Read any book be it fiction, nonfiction, self-help literally anything. Books have longer lasting impact on you.
Study people- Do people watching, observe how people behave, how they react to things, what they are good at, how they are good at it, what they are bad at, how do they talk. People teach you harder lessons.
Keep yourself up-to-date with world events. Maybe read a newspaper daily or read newsletters. Try not to intake biased narratives in you.
Learn new things. Challenge yourself. Learning new things makes your brain sharper and help you grow. It also takes fear of new things outta your mind.
Be curious and open to learning. To learn you have to let go your ego of "I know this" or "this is not important". Learn about most trivial things just for fun.
Give time to your hobby. Whatever it is, try to go deep in it and have fun while doing it.
Reading a book: Engaging with literature to relax, learn, and escape from daily stress.
Meditation: Practicing mindfulness to calm the mind and reduce stress.
Eating a balanced diet: Consuming a variety of nutrients to maintain overall health.
Exercising regularly: Keeping the body active to improve physical and mental health.
Getting enough sleep: Ensuring sufficient rest to allow the body to recover and function optimally.
Listening to music: Enjoying music to boost mood and reduce anxiety.
Stress management: Implementing techniques to control and reduce stress levels.
Setting boundaries: Establishing limits to protect personal time and energy.
Being creative: Engaging in creative activities to express oneself and relax.
Time management: Organizing time effectively to balance responsibilities and leisure.
Taking regular breaks: Resting periodically to maintain productivity and prevent burnout.
Stretching: Keeping the body flexible and reducing muscle tension.
Practicing gratitude: Focusing on positive aspects of life to boost happiness.
Looking after your skin: Maintaining skincare routines to promote skin health.
Effective communication: Clearly expressing thoughts and feelings to foster healthy relationships.
Saying no: Declining unnecessary obligations to prioritize personal well-being.
Challenging your mind: Engaging in activities that stimulate cognitive growth and learning.
Learning new things: Continuously seeking knowledge to enhance personal development.
Regular medical checkups: Attending routine health screenings to prevent and detect illnesses early.
Hanging out with friends: Socializing to build strong support networks and enjoy companionship.
Spending time with family: Connecting with loved ones to strengthen family bonds.
Me time: Dedicating time solely to oneself for relaxation and self-reflection.
Self-reflection: Evaluating personal thoughts, actions, and experiences to gain insight.
Asking for help: Seeking support when needed to manage challenges effectively.
Setting goals: Defining personal objectives to provide direction and motivation.
Developing healthy habits: Establishing routines that promote long-term well-being.
Using your voice: Speaking up for oneself to ensure needs and desires are met.
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