The Trans Guy Urge To Fucking Implode

r u an adult?

No!!! But I'm not like 12 either,,,,,,,,,, I'm not gonna say my specific age bc im scared but yeagh!!!!!!!

I'm genuinely gonna crash tf out bc can someone tell me WHYYYYY old ppl are so fucking shitty??? Like I just had a conversation w my mom about my teacher just being greedy for power by telling me to take my headphones off when they were AROUND MY NECK AND OFF. AND MY MOM SAID THAT IM WRONG FOR BEING UPSET ABOUT IT. "Yeah well guess what when I was employed my bosses told me I had to follow a dress code, style my hair in certain ways, blah blah blah" LIKE THATS NOT THE FUCKING GOAL IN LIFE. IF MY BOSS EVER TELLS ME THAT I CANT WEAR MY HAIR A CERTAIN WAY THEN IM FUCKING QUITTING AND BLOWING THE PLACE UP. I JUST WANT TO WEAR MY AUTISTIC ASS HEADPHONES AROUND MY NECK BC I FEEL SCARED WITHOUT THEM AND THEN GET TOLD THAT I JUST NEED TO FUCKING CONFORM TO EVERY LITTLE RULE. no. I refuse adamantly to do that bullshit I will die before I let some fucking ceo boss whore tell me what to do with myself. I'm so fucking tired of being told that I'll never succeed if I keep being myself.

I’m not gonna lie, the whole “what if a big, hairy trans man started using the women’s bathroom? what are TERFs gonna do then?” thing kinda pisses me off being used as some checkmate, because it insinuates that passing trans men would have any kind of power in that situation. If a passing trans man is forced to use the women’s bathroom, you know what will happen? Security will be called on him, he’ll be thrown out, and he’ll be forced to out himself as trans in order to avoid punishment, which will put an even bigger target on his back. He’s still going to be harassed. He’s still going to be forced into an uncomfortable and potentially dangerous situation, and he probably won’t avoid punishment anyway because the current laws in place are never going to favour any trans person’s defence over a cis person’s.

It also completely ignores trans men who aren’t “big and hairy” and don’t pass enough to be mistaken for a cis man. Non-passing trans men (or even men who look or sound effeminate enough to be suspected) who are forced to use the women’s bathrooms are still at a huge risk of harassment or even violence, especially young trans boys who are forced into their assigned bathrooms at school. Nex Benedict was literally murdered in a girl’s bathroom. Girls and women aren’t these inherently non-violent, peaceful and submissive beings (for one thing, that’s misogynistic). Trans men and boys get beaten up by them too, because most of us pre-T aren’t considered a threat, and we fucking die.

That’s not even to mention the trouble we already have in men’s bathrooms, because if we don’t pass, cis men will interrogate us on whether or not we’re “real men” and then sexually assault us if they discover we’re trans. Corrective rapes that trans men face is not something to be ignored, and I have trans male friends that it’s happened to who are lucky to be alive right now.

Bathroom laws will affect us just as much. The violence that trans women face is something that trans men can also relate to, and both need to be talked about without people categorising all trans men as “big, hairy, strong men able to beat up anyone who tries to threaten them” when that’s not the case like 90% of the time. Acting like passing trans men are just there to make TERFs look stupid, when TERFs are the ones who are violent towards us no matter how much we pass, is just diminishing our experiences.

Someone w a breaking bad pfp liked one of my posts how do I say that I’m in love w them

love House MD because House is the MAIN CHARACTER at that hospital and there's no attempt to hide this. as the viewer you are fully aware that those nurses in the elevator are just extras. the boss's entire schedule consists of yelling at him. the head of oncology would rather prescribe him controlled meds and flirt than practice oncology. his team's only desires are to fuck him and strangle him, often at the same time. every other doctor at the hospital might as well be a cardboard cutout.

the walls are glass, the better to see him through. he limps around, commits malpractice, and serves cunt.

long live mid-2000s TV.

Hello, here to remind people that this discourse is hurting nonbinary people as well, especially nonbinary transmascs.

Please include your nonbinary siblings in your advocacy, and don’t forget to uplift their voices as well. The assholes calling people “theyfabs” and denying the existence of transandrophobia aren’t just out to get trans men.

Half the posts I see are about "theyfab trender tme they/hes", they hate nonbinary people too.

Trans men are left out of the conversation far too often; please don't repeat the same mistake with a different group.

New challenge: don't come home after running away and see how long it takes for my parents to get worried 👅👅😈🙏

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no i feel like we don't care enough that the guy from mcr married the girl from msi??????? and named their kid bandit???????? like hello??????? what kind of wattpad fanfiction bullshit is this

HGHHHHH NUTTED

traditional art woo (sorry it's kinda shite i have very limited amount of cheap pencils rn)