🔮✨ “Candle Workshop” By Jacquelin De Leon.

TOM HOLLAND AB+DM × British GQ › 2021

Reblog if you think asexuality is a legitimate sexuality.

I'm trying to prove something.

Consent in Witchcraft

I feel like a lot of people may need to hear this.

As the cold months come around, I'm beginning to see more and more of a particular kind of magic being encouraged: love magic. Now don't get me wrong, I love a good love spell - when it's for self-love, or generally inviting/invoking love into your life, helping someone else love themselves, things like that.

But do you know what I don't want to see? People casting love spells on other people without their consent. We all complain (especially other AFAB people) how annoying it is when people don't take no as an answer, when they follow us home, when they catcall us from across the street. What's the difference between someone incessantly flirting with you when you've said no and someone casting a love spell on you without your consent?

Witchcraft is a tool. It's not an answer to every single problem you have in your life. If you're going to use magic, please use it in a way that doesn't violate consent. Even if you think they like you back, please don't try to manifest someones love. You deserve to be loved by someone because they want to, not because you've influenced them to.

As always, be safe everyone, and blessed be <3

Tips and Commissions: Ko-Fi

cats like to lay where they think you need healing (their purrs actually have healing properties) he senses you’re sad is trying to heal you. sitting on your face may not be ideal, but he’s trying his best! ♡︎

EACH TIME I GET SAD I LIE DOWN IN MY HALLWAY AND EACH TIME MY FUCKING CAT SITS ON MY FACE-

WHAT KIND OF FAMILIAR DOES THAT??? HE IS NO HELP TO ME

just some d&d characters ive drawn ♡´･ᴗ･`♡

hopefully opening commissions at some point, but my pc no longer works so currently saving up for a laptop ☻︎

please do not repost without cred!

things that made me stop wanting to die that require no effort whatsoever

change the color used to highlight text on your laptop

move the pictures on your wall

stack whatever clutter is in your room into piles even if you don’t have time to clean it all

slightly vary your commute, even just by one street

change where you sit and scroll aimlessly on your phone even if it’s only to the chair in your room instead of your bed

drink water or juice out of a wine glass in the morning because nothing is real

shower with the lights off, without music

buy $3 flowers at trader joe’s—they look bad next to the more expensive ones but they look so good in your room

start typing things you don’t post into your notes. your thoughts can be worth documenting even if you don’t deem them worth sharing

wake up super early just once. you don’t have to make it a habit it’s just extra satisfying to go to bed that night

listen to the entirety of your favorite album from 2015

i love women. in the feminist way and in the gay way. happy international women’s day