Facts That Adults Don’t Tell You About Bullying

Facts that adults don’t tell you about bullying

- Communication doesn’t work on bullies. Telling a bully they’re making you feel bad is the wrong way to go. They want to make you feel bad. That’s the point.

- being kind to a bully doesn’t always mean they’ll stop. Sometimes it means they’ll just use your kindness to manipulate you while still continuing to bully you.

- not every bully has a sympathetically tragic home life. Sometimes people are just mean. Sometimes people just get off on hurting others.

- on that note, a tough home life is a reason, not an excuse. You don’t have to put up with bullying because somebody’s life sucks, just like you don’t have to let someone mug you because they’re broke.

- in order to forgive someone, they have to apologize first. If your bully has not apologized to you, you do not owe them anything.

- getting bullied as a kid can still mess you up in adult life. Maybe kids grow out of being bullies, but the marks they left often don’t go away.

- there are ways to get people to stop bullying you, but they almost all involve being mean back.

- as long as parents keep raising shitty bullying kids, there will be bullies. No amount of assemblies and hand-drawn posters will fix the problem. It’s the parents’ fault.

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Booty Call

Based on this text post. Remus played by @asktheboywholived.

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luckyheromongerrascal

5 years ago

Prediction for next potc movie

Davy Jones:I killed you once Turner, I do not fear you

Will:Oh it's not me you're suposed to fear

Davy Jones:What?

Elizabeth:(in the distance) DAVY JONES!

Davy Jones:*looks to see Elizabeth swinging in with a sword in her hand and murder in her eyes*

Elizabeth:YOU KILLED MY HUSBAND!

Will:She's going to fuck you up

Davy Jones:*sighs* I know

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luckyheromongerrascal

5 years ago

Davina : I always have a note in my pocket that says “Kol did it” just in case I’m murdered because I don’t want him to remarry.

— The Original

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luckyheromongerrascal

5 years ago

Thanks satan!!

41. Newborn Teddy Lupin sleeping between Remus and Tonks, who are both embracing him in their interlocked arms. The entire night was consisted of them whispering to Teddy and each other about the care-free lives that they’ll all have one day after the war ended.

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luckyheromongerrascal

5 years ago

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luckyheromongerrascal

5 years ago

So I have this theory/headcannon for Remus Lupin.

Firstly, it’s important to know that Remus is Bisexual (with a preference for guys), while Sirius is gay.

He and Sirius used to date. They dated all the way until James and Lily’s death, because Remus was under the impression that Sirius was the secret keeper. Remus felt angry that his boyfriend betrayed his best friend for his life, so they broke up. Not like a face-to-face break up, but it was pretty implied (as Remus never visited Sirius in Azkaban).

When Remus finds out what actually happens, he’s embarrassed. He doesn’t allow him and Sirius date again because he blames himself for not believing Sirius was innocent. It breaks Sirius’ already shattered heart, but he doesn’t fight the one guy he love loved.

Then Sirius dies. Remus blames himself more. He can’t really deal with all the pain. Tonks comes around. Remus starts falling for Tonks, but he won’t let himself admit it. He doesn’t want to hurt another person, he doesn’t want to forget Sirius.

After a while, he comes to terms with his feelings. He allows himself to get married to Tonks. But the panic comes really when he finds out that she’s pregnant. So much can go wrong. Harry was harsh, but helpful. Because, somewhere in his heart, he knew that Sirius would agree with Harry. So, when Teddy was born, he made Harry the godfather. He never doubted his choice.

Battle of Hogwarts. He would fight, because that’s what his best friends did. He never stopped fighting until he was killed. When he was killed, he knew it was for the best.

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luckyheromongerrascal

5 years ago

harry potter is a canonically a dumbass so anyone you ship him with automatically becomes a moronsexual thank u for coming to my TED talk

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luckyheromongerrascal

5 years ago

how to make me sad guaranteed: mention lupin and tonks

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luckyheromongerrascal

5 years ago

teddy lupin being open and friendly and touchy-feely with everyone, so for three entire years james potter sees teddy doing stupidly cute stuff like kissing victoire’s hand and brushing her hair away from her eyes and sitting by the lake with his head in her lap and he just thinks they’re mates, potter teenagers are idiots it’s obviously genetic

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