Hey, Breathe.

hey, breathe.

selfshipping is not a competition. it's not about how many commissions you can buy. it's not about owning as much merch as possible. it's not about the amount of followers/mutuals you have. it's not about producing content every single day. it's not about numbers. it's not about being blorbo's canon something.

it's about you and your favorite characters. it's about how much you love them and what they mean to you. being happy in your love for them, crafting your little universe in your mind where you love and are loved unconditionally, that's what matters the most.

your heart is full of affection for them and it's a beautiful thing. don't let the fear of not being good enough, not spending enough money, not having enough followers/engagement or not being seen as blorbo's number one (tm) take that away from you.

love of any kind is too important to be tainted by self doubt and anxiety. your beloveds love you for you. they don't need you to be the best. they just need you to be yourself. you being you is the reason why they adore you.

pro/com/darkship and rpf dni.