stop worrying
i manifested majority of my dream life in 3 months, simply because i stopped worrying. i stopped asking "how" or "when", i stopped wondering if i needed to take extra steps or if i needed to put in work. i stopped worrying about if i was doing the right methods or if the process was happening. i stopped asking and started doing; started affirming daily, reminding myself, stopped wavering, interrupted negative thoughts immediately during occurance and replaced them with positive ones.
i used to have no path in life, i didn't have a job, friends, a relationship, wasn't in school, depressed, struggling with an eating disorder. i was literally living the staple life that most people would absolutely dread.
i switched the entirety of my purpose around simply by telling myself otherwise. i rejected what others told me what my "reality" and replaced it with what i truly wanted. within 3 months, i was socializing more than i had in the last 3 years. i was getting opportunities i used to dream about.
and remember, it only took me 3 months because that's how long i choose for it to take. there were times where i would say "this will come next week" instead of "this will come within 0.00001 seconds". therefore, i got my results by next week instead of instantly. you choose your time period.
I really love that you guys are able to trust me with advice and send me the questions you have for me but there’s only so many ways I can say the same thing.
You just need to accept that you have what you want and persist in the knowing you have what you want. It’s nothing more complicated than that.
However you get to that acceptance is your call.
But please understand this: it’s a choice. It’s a decision. You decide you have your desires? You have your desires. You either have it or you don’t have it. That’s up to you. If this doesn’t click for you there’s nothing I can say that will make it click. You just need to realise that you have all the power and that the moment you DECIDE you have your desires, you DO. THAT’S IT.
I have repeated this over and over again. There will never be anything else I have to add. Just please listen to me. Read my words over and over again if you have to.
Important reminder:
All you need is to know you have your desire in imagination. Stop looking for the 3D to validate the fact that you have it, when all validation comes from within, from imagination. The second you start looking at the 3D for evidence of the fact you have it, you’re telling yourself that you don’t have it. Just enter imagination. You know by this point that imagination is reality. So the second you imagine having it, YOU DO. Just stand firm in the knowing you have your desires in imagination.
Yes the 3D will change. But in order for that to happen you need to change yourself from within. Remember the 3D is merely a mirror. When you look in the mirror and you don’t like what you see, you don’t change the mirror, you change yourself. The mirror reflects YOU. Who you are being is who you see in the mirror. So be the person who has what they want.
This is literally all the information you need. So lock in and stop coming up with excuses to not apply. Just decide you have what you want and stand firm in that decision regardless of anything.
XOXO | GOSSIP GIRL | XOXO | GOSSIP GIRL | XOXO | GOSSIP GRL
XOXO | GOSSIP GIRL | XOXO | GOSSIP GIRL | XOXO | GOSSIP GRL
Hey Upper East Siders.
If you didn’t know already, the Key to manifestation is “Feeling”. As Neville Goddard said, “Feeling Is The Secret.”
But what exactly is that “Feeling”
I’ve once been those “vague” bloggers that blatantly tell you “It’s just knowing you have your desire.” Which is true, but i’ve noticed that created some here.
Yes, that “Feeling” is KNOWING that you have your desire in imagination and that it is DONE.
But when people are manifesting, they keep trying to force the feeling of knowing that they have their desire. That is NOT the way it should be!
The knowing feeling will always be there once you’ve accepted it, even though you may not be able to exactly pinpoint what the feeling is. Don’t understand?
Well, for example, think of a fact about yourself. For me, I know that i’ve got black hair. I may not have a specific “knowing” feeling. I just know I have it. I just focus on whatever feeling that comes to me when I think of the FACT that i’ve got black hair. THAT’S the feeling of knowing (AKA feeling of the wish fulfilled). I am never forcing myself to feel the knowing feeling of having black hair. It just naturally arouses within me because i’ve already accepted it as a fact.
When you accept having something in imagination, that feeling is naturally just there. With acceptance comes the feeling. When you accept that the inner self (4D self) is the real self, persisting with the feeling becomes incredibly easy.
This feeling you get from identifying with your inner self. When you understand that the inner you is the real you, allowing the feeling becomes really easy. But you have to FULLY identify with your inner self. You are completely unidentifying with the 3D (your outer world & self).
People confuse themselves when they feel like they’re doing it wrong because they think they can’t feel the “knowing” feeling. The knowing feeling is just whatever feeling you get when you imagine having your desire and truly accept and acknowledge that you have it in imagination.
FEEL WITH 100% CERTAINTY THAT YOU HAVE YOUR “DESIRES” IN IMAGINATION, YOU WON’T EVEN HAVE TO QUESTION WHETHER YOU’RE IMAGINING “CORRECTLY” OR FEELING THE “CORRECT” FEELING BECAUSE YOU ARE ALREADY SO CERTAIN THAT YOU HAVE IT, BECAUSE IT’S AN UNDENIABLE FACT THAT YOU HAVE IT BECAUSE YOU EXPERIENCED IT IN IMAGINATION! -> This is the best way to describe the feeling!!!
This feeling of knowing may lead to emotions such as happiness, or other feelings like a sense of calmness and security. Happiness is an emotion, not a feeling. You do not have to feel happy. And overtime, you will notice that this feeling becomes more natural to you, so you may start to feel less happy about having the “desires” because it just becomes normal. You aren’t excited about having a new piece of clothing when you’ve had it for some time. The same goes for everything else. It becomes natural.
The feeling NATURALLY comes to you when you identify with the inner self who has the “desires” in imagination. You should NEVER be forcing it, you simply allow it.
Here is a quote from a post I saved a while ago:
“If you repeat in accepting that you're wealthy, either with affirmations or with scenes, the feeling of being rich will naturally arouse within you. don't force that feeling, simply allow it. if you're conscious of being rich, then the feeling will naturally arouse. you're NOT forcing yourself to feel rich. you're consciously directing your awareness to be conscious of being rich, and the feeling follows.
Bask yourself in it. lose yourself in it. remember, you're not forcing anything, you abandon yourself to it. lose yourself to the point where you forget you're imagining. being rich is the only reality that exists at that moment.
Do this until you no longer feel the need to do it. you'll know it when you feel like it's done and you don't need to do it anymore.”
“From this acceptance, you’ll feel this feeling(not emotion). and this feeling will generate scenes and affirmations that are perfect for you!!!! play with those scenes and affirmations or whatever comes to you naturally. bask yourself in this feeling!!! lose yourself!!!! have fun!!! from this on, all you have to do is persist not to get things in the 3d, but to make this state your habitual & autopilot state.”
“To be CONSCIOUS of being rich is to FEEL yourself to be rich. Focus first on being conscious of being rich then the feeling will follow. Focus on the state. Focus on being CONSCIOUS of being it.”
- aphroditeapprentice
“All you have to do is FEEL it as a present FACT in IMAGINATION.”
KEY QUOTES:
✰ “Do not force that feeling, simply allow it.”
✰ “then the feeling will naturally arouse.”
✰ “you’re NOT forcing yourself.”
All you have to do is, imagine whatever you want to imagine using any of your 5 senses, then focus on the FEELING that the imaginal act arouses within you. And hold that feeling for as long as you want. Then go about your day. And do this EVERY.SINGLE.TIME you think of your desire.
Only seek proof in IMAGINATION. Only identify with the inner self, know that the outer you is not the real you!
HOW TO ACTUALLY FEEL FULFILLED.
Love all of you beauties, XOXO
- gossip girl
Hi Pink! How are you? How have you been? I've been following your side blog but you've stopped posting there too 😭 imy
I'm sorry for the trauma dump but it's almost going to be 4 years since I've known of the void and haven't entered and I feel soo hopeless. I'm really ugly, I failed my classes and my parents don't know yet, I am being bullied at school and my job, I am abused at home, etc etc. I don't want this to just be a trauma dump, I know I can change my life around but I'm just struggling with how. Please advise me 😭 Please please please 🙏
Hi! I used to work a corporate job (because that was my dream life before) and I would be on tumbr during my commute but I've quit and have been traveling around the world, currently in Taiwan! and I'm just not on social media/tumblr as often anymore!
To answer your question, I saw a lot of asks like this so while I will be answering specifically to this anon, please understand it's for everyone in a similar situation.
So here's my advice:
TAKE A BREAK.
Seriously just take a break. For atleast a week but maybe a month if you can.
DO NOT ATTEMPT FOR THE VOID/THINK ABOUT THE VOID/ETC.
During this time, I want you to reflect on what has acctually made you manifest. If you have truly been in this community for almost 4 years and have been putting in effort, you should have atleast manifested something. Whether that be a subliminal or a method like SATS or affirming.
Once you pinpoint that, use that method to work on your ability to manifest.
Do this until you genuienly feel confident in manifesting. Then try for the void.
Now the reason I say this is because I am a firm believer that you can enter the void state without LOA. I know I did.
HOWEVER, if you're about to hit 4 years, then you've got to be real with yourself and realize that you've got some subconcious blockage that isn't letting you enter the void through meditations, lucid dreams, etc. So you need to focus on that except that brings up the problem of what is the subconcious blockage?
This is a bit of a tangent but I recently talked to a very powerful Reiki healer who told me that something she and her clients struggle with is finding the core issue that needs to be cleared. Once the real issue is addressed she can clear it for them BUT it often takes multiple sessions and clearing multiple issues either because the client is targeting an unnecessary issue or they have multiple issues going on.
My point for explaining that is rather than trying to find what your issue is and clearing it one by one, it's easier to just bypass, strengthen your manifestation ability and just manifest your dream life/manifesting entering the void.
I know this isn't nothing new or revolutionary but this is honestly the best method for you.
If you need a success story to motivate you for this, check out @cleostoohot void success story. I'm sure there's way more but I can't recall any other on the top of my head.
I really hope this helps 🫶
No matter what you see in your 3d currently, you already have what you desire.
No matter what your eyes see throughout the mirror, you already have what you desire.
No matter what, you already have what you desire!
So stop giving up if you don’t see your results in your 3d. The only reason why you’re not seeing them, is because you keep thinking that they’re not there.
Constantly looking in the mirror for “proof” is going to put a barrier between you and your manifestations, because you’re so longing to seek your results in the 3d instead of working in your 4d (your mind).
Stop worrying, all that you desire is already yours, no matter what! You will see it once you stop caring so much about the 3d.
“Your subconscious mind doesn’t have eyes it only takes in what you give it”
Your subconscious only takes in what you tell it! Not otherwise. So if you’re still having doubts and worries about what you’re manifesting, it’ll take you a while for you to physically see what you already have.
Just relax and persist, you’re limitless and can create anything you want with your mind.
Like seriously guys, stop contradicting yourself. Stop second guessing. Stop changing your thoughts. You've got this, trust me. You can't lose in your own reality. That's just plain stupid. It's all just a matter of deciding that it's yours and sticking to it. It seems a Lil too good to be true but that's just how it is. Stick to the fact that it's already done. Deal with anything that comes your way knowing that this won't change. That's it. It's already done for god's sake. Why would anything else matter when it's already done? When you already have it??? When it's already yours???
Stop being the side character in your own reality. Stop losing in your reality. You're the hero, the director, the producer literally anything and everything in your reality. OWN IT. OWN YOUR LIFE. OWN YOUR STORY.
you’re just consciousness. literally just move your awareness to what you want to experience and your consciousness will follow because reality is just a waking dream baby
You complicated the void too much .. here's a success post...and this shall be your last time scrolling here..you can do what I did..its so easy
Okay, no more stalling—let me tell you exactly how I DID it.
Yeah, me. I entered the void. If I can, you absolutely can too. It all started on the night of a Friday ..had school off and everything I was desperate to leave, around 10:12 AM. I got in bed, made myself super comfy, and just decided: This is it. I’m going into the void in under a few seconds/minutes (I don't remember). And guess what? I actually did.I didn’t use anything crazy—
just the good old method. Lying on my back, slow breathing, no stress. I kept the intention clear:
“Stay awake while my body sleeps.” That one thought kept me grounded.
I let my body sink into the bed, didn’t overthink it, and bam—
I was in the SATS almost immediately.Then I affirmed. Nothing wild.
Just “I am the void.” “I am already in the void.”A few times. I felt this shift, like my body faded and all that was left was me and this infinite blackness.
And after maybe 3 minutes… I slipped in. I really did.
I stayed there. Thought it was a few minutes but it ended up being a whole ass HOUR!
An entire hour in the void. And how did I know? I asked to see rainbow and yellow stars—and I did. Exactly what I wanted.
Exactly what I affirmed.
I’m not special. I’m not some exception. I’m just a reminder: It’s real.
You can do it.
You’re literally one choice away from the void.
Next time I’m focusing only on the blackness, not my body or anything physical. Just pure being. Pure power.I
DID IT. YOU CAN TOO. You are the creator of your own reality. Don’t doubt it. Embody it. It’s already yours.
When I say that this journey is real, and our struggles are not in vain, I am shouting it from the rooftops. A month ago, I woke up with my dream life. Obsessed with the "void state", I woke up one day being the same person but with an entirely new life. All because I chose it.
Your efforts aren't going unnoticed. The universe is always on your side. You are the universe. It's been a month, and I still feel overwhelmed with joy and wonder every single day.
I was once poor and battling depression, a reality many can relate to. But we found the law because we knew we deserved more. You can be ordinary, flawed, even unkind, but you can choose to transform and have it all. And I did just that. My parents, who were illegal immigrants working underpaid jobs, are now wealthy and respected figures. My last name alone garners recognition, and I am a socialite earning money just by being me.
I used to live in an attic infested with cockroaches. Now, I reside in a four-story mansion, complete with exotic cars, house help, cooks, drivers - all treated and compensated fairly. We also own three other houses across the United States.
I was once insecure, severely underweight, and bullied. Today, not only am I stunningly beautiful, but I am also praised for my fashion sense. I was once a dull person, but now I am radiant with positivity.
I attended an underfunded school where I was bullied, and teachers lacked resources to intervene. Now, I study at a prestigious private school that assures my entry into an Ivy League university. Finally, I am respected and appreciated.
I was lonely and uninteresting. Now, I am vibrant with a close-knit group of friends and a man who seems straight out of a Wattpad story. He's perfect, and he's mine.
This transformation happened overnight. And I've been on this journey since 2020. But how??? I surrendered to my imagination!
The void was overwhelming, but now I can easily navigate it. I was tired of giving my power away. So, I gave in to myself, to my dreams. I knew I deserved it. Even if I didn't believe it at times, I made the choice. If you desire something, it's already yours. It's done.
I didn't have a list or anything of my desires, just a vision of happiness. I didn't know what it looked like, but I knew how it felt. Now, I embody that feeling every day. My life is a series of plot twists. It's not perfect, but my worst days now are what I once prayed for. That old life? POOF It's gone. All I have is now, and I'm living it to the fullest.
My advice?
Stop seeking proof. If you're looking for proof, you'll never manifest your dreams because the only thing that needs to change is self. Doubt is a reflection of your disbelief in yourself. When I surrendered to my imagination, it didn't matter who was lying or telling the truth, because I had my truth. The burden of proof lies within you. It's called the law of assumption. You might harbor some doubt, but you must have faith like the devout. They believe without proof. You can too! We all can! Believe in yourself, and the universe will conspire in your favor!!!!
I agree! Your words resonated with me a lot. Faith, particularly self-faith, is such an important tool in shaping our realities. The ability to trust ourselves, our desires, and our potential is essential in manifesting our dream life, and it’s only so beautiful to slowly see yourself give yourself all your trust when you’ve never even liked yourself.
You're spot on about the issue of seeking confirmation from others. It's an unnecessary hurdle that we give ourselves but it’s human nature. Our truths and dreams should not be validated by anyone else but us. As you said, why should it matter if someone lied or told the truth? We are the creators of our own lives and thus, the only validation we need comes from within.
And I wholeheartedly agree with your point about deservingness. We don't have to earn our desires or prove ourselves worthy of them. If we want something, that desire alone makes us deserving of it.
More importantly I am very proud and happy for you !!!! You’re a testament of what our own imagination can do for us and I hope you only keep getting happier and happier <3!!!!
a lot of y’all are forgetting that you are literally the creator of your own reality. there’s no one “above you” controlling your life. YOU have the remote control. it can seem quite scary at first, but it really doesn’t have to be
whatever you focus on will manifest. if you spend 1 hour of your day affirming how rich and abundant you are but spend 23 hours dwelling and focusing on the fact that you’re poor then what do you think your 3D is going to bring into fruition ?
also whatever you assume or believe to be true will manifest. if you believe that all men are assholes then that’s exactly what your 3D is going to show to you, & no this isn’t a “limiting belief” it’s literally the law.
it’s literally so easy y’all. just focus on HAVING your desires & not the opposite. live in the assumption that you already have your desires and don’t stop.
i told y’all multiple times where i came from and where i am now.
the old me:
insecure
depressed
middle class
shy
me now:
more confident than ever
mental diet + self concept on 10
high class shit only
rich
fun & out going
thriving with the bf the old me could only dream of having.
i want y’all to always remember to NEVER EVER settle for less. NOTHING is too good to be true in your reality. you’re an infinite being baby nothing is off limits. you want telekinesis powers ? go for it. you want to be able to read minds & control other peoples thoughts ? go ahead. you can be/do/have absolutely anything in this whole universe, anything.
Your consciousness is not in your body. Your body is in your consciousness.
You are not in your reality. Your reality is in your consciousness.
You are not within time or space. Space and time are ideas within your consciousness.