Preach

I am jealous of those who think more deeply, who write better, who draw better, who look better, who live better, who love better than I.

-Sylvia Plath

The best scenes !!!!!! But the music make the whole scene

skam meme: 

[¾] scenes ➢ i need a slow motion video right now 

 bonus: 

you know so i’m a psychology student and an abuse survivor so i have a pretty keen eye for the red flags in people’s behavior and this one day several years ago i was sitting there and really got to thinking about taylor’s struggle with the media and other celeb’s struggles as well and it hit me really hard that celebrities are essentially in emotionally abusive relationships with the public

they’re constantly put down and criticized for everything: their appearance, voice, talent, words, financial status, etc., their privacy is invaded, they’re threatened and assaulted, they’re stalked, they’re constantly told by others that they’re doing things that they aren’t doing (gaslighting), etc.

and honestly the moment i took that in and really, really understood it, my heart broke for the artists that i love

If you think Taylor isn’t looking out for her fellow artists you haven’t been paying attention.

Ok so let’s take a minute and talk about how the three repeated pillars of Jeresa’s relationship are:

“We’re in this together.” Meaning they have each other’s back. They protect each other. They don’t have to go through any of this alone and they share that responsibility no matter what. They are partners.

“I’m not leaving.” They’re here to stay. Which for someone like Teresa who has a history of abandonment and trust issues is super important to know you have someone that’s not going to leave you. That cares enough to stick it out with them. And I bet you my entire ass, she’s also the first person that ever came back for James. This is really probably the first time either of them have someone to count on to not leave them behind no matter what. Someone that’s gonna stick it out through the struggles and the danger because they care enough to.

“You don’t have to hide from me.” Um fuck me up with this one. For James, who basically hates himself for the things he’s done and Teresa, who isolates her feelings because she can’t trust people this is big. They can be who they are. They don’t have to pretend or hide parts of themselves because their relationship is open and that’s why they can have these conversations about their fears and their insecurities and work through all their problems. They understand each other and there’s no judgement just acceptance and the shared need to move forward.

Like um excuse me, have you ever seen such a healthy, mature duo in your life? Yeah they have problems and they fight, but they work through it because it matters. I am such trash for them. This is the kind of partnership I deserve. Ugh they’re so powerful.

Mom, the one who saved me when I had the accident... Do you remember his or her name?

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it’s a messy mess, not just a regular mess.

So you're telling me for decades people from all walks of life made fun of teenage girls for being stans, from the Beatles to BTS, and made teenage girls out to be these wild out of pocket intense fans of Cute Boys, all for turning red to come out and people to act like they have never heard of of a girl being into anything in their entire life???