Can we bring back love poems and love letters, please? What's wrong with that? I feel like people should bring in that effort to write a poem or a love letter to people who they like, whether it's a platonic, familiar, or romantic like or even one to yourself! If that makes me a hopeless romantic, then so be it, I'm PROUD of it! It doesn't matter how simple or if it seems stupid to you. They will appreciate the effort regardless.
I hate when ppl are like "You can't just say a couple affirmations before bed and go to sleep and expect to shift" because like, yes you can? People have shifted accidentally before, what makes you think that it's not gonna happen? If you're feeling really low energy, it's okay to just say a couple affirmations and go to bed or just skip that and sleep. Worst comes to worst, you don't shift. There's always tomorrow night though
Did any other aroace people not care about love. Like love and relationships were nothing to you until like primary school or high school where people started to talk about crushes and then the pressure hit you? Because I remember before all that I couldn't have care less and I know I'm aroace now but because of all those pressures it's hard to let go of the idea of having a relationship and a partner? Like I've become obsessed over it even though i'm aroace and know that at one point I didn't care about it. Maybe it's just me.
"He felt a sense of comfort staring at the void, the void never lied, the void was predictable and was never something it wasn't. It was real and true."
Every time I've tried to set intention, it's always been a "failure." It's super annoying, but I was like "what am I doing wrong?
I KNOW WHAT I WAS DOING WRONG.
Every time I've tried to shift, it's always been without actual intention. I was repeating words, but not their meanings.
It doesn't matter why your shifting, but the emotions and thought process does. When you wake up in your DR, what will you feel? Not physically, but emotionally.
To set intention, you feel the weight of your words. Ask yourself, what do you emotionally feel about shifting? That emotion you feel, right now, in that universe, is enough to shift you. When you lay down, and close your eyes, no matter the method, when you shift, you have to think about the emotional impact you'll have waking up on your DR bed or area. Think about the feeling of your environment. How happy you'll be to feel that one thing there. And once you feel that happiness, that excitement, affirm. "I am shifting." Or, if it pleases you, say "i have already shifted." And you wanna know why that shifts you? Because your emotions are your intentions.
THIS CAN BE SAID ABOUT LITERALLY ANYTHING. TO MY CLUELESS INTENTION SHIFTERS/MANIFESTORS/LOA, KNOW YOUR INTENTION IS JUST YOUR EMOTIONS PUT INTO PRESENT TENSE.
are love letters still a thing? I want one
a reminder that deities you work with don't hate you for not being able to do things, especially not if you're physically or mentally able to!
the gods understand that we're not perfect, that we're just fleshy meat sacks and that some of us aren't able to do things as much, and you shouldn't compare your craft to anyone else's! it's yours after all.
and if you're worried that your offerings aren't good enough, think about it like this. if a little crow came up to you and gave you a stick, you wouldn't think "what a dumb crow, why'd you give me a stick?", would you? no! you'd know that the little crow is doing his best and wanted to give you a gift. to the deities, you're that little crow, and they know you're doing your best <3
Say it with me even if you don't believe it at the moment:
I AM WORTH IT
I AM WORTHY OF LOVE
I AM KIND
I AM SMART
I AM IMPORTANT
MY THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS MATTER
I LIKE WHO I AM
I LOVE ME
I AM PROUD OF ME
I CARE ABOUT ME
I CAN FILL UP SPACE
I AM NOT A BURDEN
OH MY GOSH THESE TWO COMMENTS ARE THE REALEST EVER đ
I actually hate the term âminishiftedâ because wym you heard people from your DR or smelled a specific scent and you werenât there??