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Looking cool is overrated anyway 🫣💜

Her

The first thing I noticed about you was your hair. Dirty blonde, or maybe it was wheat gold, but I was - and still am - jealous of it. You had two styles, a messy bun and just straight down.

Next your lips, a light muted red that matched your almond shaped nails. You always did look good in autumn colors. 

Then your clothes, I wanted your wardrobe so bad. The way you dressed was exactly the aesthetic I tried to copy. Oversized, grunge, or dark academia. 

Is it weird of me to say that I always noticed when you were across from me in the hallway?

But I don’t think I liked you, not in a crush sort of way, just as someone I liked to envy. 

Though my face felt warm whenever you walked past and I always felt an urge to dress up for you and I really wanted you to compliment me and I wanted us to be good friends.

Sometimes I wonder if something was wrong with me in those moments. 

I tried to look cool in front of your friend, I don’t know if it worked or if she thought I was too excited. 

Maybe I made a bad first impression? 

After that we never talked, and I’m not sad, but I’m not sure if I’m content either.

I think you’ve been on my mind for 3 years now.

I love foreign language films

For aro/ace writers:

- you don't have to write sex scenes. Tolkien didn't

- you don't have to write romance. Lewis didn't

- you can write very close friendships that have nothing romantic nor sexual in them. Scott Lynch did

- you can write sexual relationships that don't involve romance. Sapkowski did

- you can write romantic relationships that don't involve sex. Pratchett and Gaiman did

Don't let anyone tell you that some kinds of relationships are impossible or that a story must contain some themes. It's your story, write it the way you want

Writing Description Notes:

Updated 17th July 2024 More writing tips, review tips & writing description notes

Facial Expressions

Masking Emotions

Smiles/Smirks/Grins

Eye Contact/Eye Movements

Blushing

Voice/Tone

Body Language/Idle Movement

Thoughts/Thinking/Focusing/Distracted

Silence

Memories

Happy/Content/Comforted

Love/Romance

Sadness/Crying/Hurt

Confidence/Determination/Hopeful

Surprised/Shocked

Guilt/Regret

Disgusted/Jealous

Uncertain/Doubtful/Worried

Anger/Rage

Laughter

Confused

Speechless/Tongue Tied

Fear/Terrified

Mental Pain

Physical Pain

Tired/Drowsy/Exhausted

Eating

Drinking

@staff

BAN THE BOTS

it’s not the responsibility of us tumblr users to continually report the p0rn bots in the asexual tag. It is YOUR JOB to do that. You are actively neglecting your responsibilities by not doing anything about this. Please show us that you’re not negligent, and that you can actually do your jobs.

to the users reading this: make your own posts calling out the staff for this, and fill them with as many queer tags as possible. We aces have allies in other people in the queer community, and the more people who see these posts and learn about the bots, the more pressure on staff there will be, and the sooner they’ll take action.

some people on insta said i should post my workout routine since i mentioned how im so happy with the results, so here’s my little workout guide for my fellow trans folk! I focused on getting a more masculine body because obviously that’s what I want. I’m so happy with the results, this workout is saving my fucking life!!!! I can’t get on T soon so this has really been keeping my dysphoria in check. I barely get body dysphoria, i love how my clothes looks on me, i love feeling confident for once in my life!!! HOWEVER Don’t go overboard with working out my friends. Do not work out in a binder, you MUST take days off to let your muscles heal, and you CAN’T starve yourself! Fitness is all about health and diet! Take care of yourself. This is also MY workout routine, you may not get the same results as I have! Every body is different. 

EDIT: ahh I really didn’t expect this thing to blow up….A few people have brought it to my attention that some of the nutrition here could be wrong/not work for everyone. I apologize if I caused any harm. I think I stressed enough that you shouldn’t starve yourself to lose weight. That’s very dangerous, and if you’re prone to such habits I suggest don’t count calories, etc, and just make sure your diet is very nutritious. I just provided a way to lose weight that my doctor told me about. You don’t need to lose weight if you don’t want to. Obviously if you’re already thin there’s no need to make a goal to lose weight; that’s dangerous. Also, some of this may or may not be helpful depending on your body type. I was underweight before working out so I have no idea how it would affect someone overweight! Please don’t hold this post to such a high standard; this was just my own routine and things I do to stay in shape, I obviously can’t cater to everyone. I literally didn’t expect this post to blow up like it did, this was literally just for a few people. Sorry for any harm it caused!

I.. I just.. why? Why are people like this? I’m on a public server, this is a screenshot form last night btw, and this absolute (censor) comes and says

“NAHH NAHHH YALL MAKING PRIDE FLAGS NAHH BRO”

I should have said

“Don’t like it don’t look”

people are bitches.

I saw a pinterest comment that said 'someone should combine all of the aroace flags and call it supremACEy' and..

SUPREMACEY

the extra 'e' was not a mistake