Girls Be Like “i Know A Place” And Before You Know It You’re Cuddling In A Tree

"I love you just the way you are" doesn't have the same value when you're trying to change

if i get bored from doing the same thing for an hour (at most), how do you expect me to inhabit a body for several decades???

so i'm going to make a new jacket patch

Maybe if I was prettier. Or maybe if I was more horrifying actually

pros: it would most likely vastly improve my life in a multitude of ways

cons: might get scared

hey btw as a reminder. disappointing someone is not the same as harming them

Self improvement is great but ultimately? you have to accept your self. Yes you can eat better, exercise more, read more, set boundaries, love your self, but it all comes down to this. Some days you won’t have the energy to do any of these things. And you’ll look in the mirror and think that this is not enough. That’s a lie. The biggest love for self is to live slowly. To rest. To really rest. Have a nap. Eat what makes you feel good. Read if you want to. Embrace yourself and accept that you cannot and will not be ever be perfect. Accept that you are good enough. You don’t need to keep busy all the time. you don’t need to go out all the time and post on instagram. You don’t need to journal if you don’t want to. You don’t need to make art if you don’t want to. Breathe, give yourself grace and compassion. Give yourself the love and tenderness you so badly need. Be gentle with yourself. You are trying and it is good enough. You are good enough.

this tweet hasn't left my mind once in the two years since it's been posted

person a: when i love someone, i gaslight them

person b: you don’t gaslight me

person a: of course i do

person b: no, i don’t think you do

person a: yeah, i do, i gaslight you all the time, darling. how could you forget?

life is too long to be unhappy