SELF CARE

u know what makes me lowkey sad? when someone says ‘i know it seems silly’ before talking about something they clearly care very deeply about bc u know that means someone gave them shit for caring that much about that thing before which is Fucked Up.

The saddest moment is going to self harm and realising you have to look for clean skin to cut...

Some of my fave personal spreads 😊

noooo!!!

how to stay motivated long-term

trust, me i know that long-term motivation and consistency is hard. long-term motivation might be difficult to maintain, but there are effective techniques to help you stay focused and determined. whether you're seeking personal ambitions, academic achievements, or professional success, here are some strategies to help encourage motivation:

understand the reason behind your goal ☆ does your goal contribute to personal growth or meaningful relationships? ☆ how does your goal impact others? ☆ is your goal meaningful to you? if your goal lacks meaning, it may be hard to maintain motivation.

positive and negative motivation motivation can come from different places ☆ positive motivation: the desire to experience pleasure ☆ negative motivation: the desire to avoid something (an outcome) both types of motivation have their place, so learn to recognise what type fits in where.

set up systems use your initial motivation to set up structures: ☆ create routines, systems and habits that help you towards your goal even when your motivation fluctuates ☆ when your emotions wane, rely on these systems and disciplines to maintain momentum

break down goals ☆ tackle one goal at a time to avoid feeling overwhelmed ☆ set achievable milestones and celebrate each step forward ☆ keep the momentum going by focusing on manageable tasks

validate good work ☆ give yourself a little reward, or thank yourself, for completing hard tasks ☆ this reinforces motivation and encourages effort

remember--motivation isn't in a constant state, it ebbs and flows. these small tips will help to stay motivated. i'm going to provide more information in upcoming posts, and i will link them here once they are published.

luck on your journey ❤️

Words have consequences

Words hurt

Never tell anyone to kill themselves

About a week ago I posted this.

I’ve been getting horrible messages like this in my ask for months, including:

and my personal favorite

After getting the message saying “Just go kill yourself” I was completely done dealing with this person’s horrible messages and replied with just an “Okay.” and logged off tumblr.

About a week later I logged back on with 17 messages in my ask, most of them from the anon. I scrolled down and at first when I logged off, the anon messaged me things like

I scrolled up more and all of a sudden they started sending me more and more messages like

This was extremely surprising to me. I thought “After all those horrible messages you sent to me for MONTHS about hating me and wanting me dead, you say ‘sorry’ and that you ‘cant be responsible for someone’s suicide’?”

But I guess the lesson goes like this:

DONT TELL ANYONE TO KILL THEMSELVES UNLESS YOU ARE PREPARED FOR WHAT MIGHT ACTUALLY HAPPEN

Reblog if you started worrying about your weight before you were fourteen.

• Ten Day Workout Plan •

Workouts to gain back your lost fitness

Day 1:

15 sit ups

5 crunches

30 sec plank

20 V- ups

10 push-ups

25 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 2:

20 sit ups

10 crunches

30 sec plank

20 V-ups

12 push-ups

30 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 3:

25 sit ups

15 crunches

35 sec plank

30 V-ups

15 push-ups

35 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 4:

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 5:

30 sit ups

20 crunches

40 sec plank

30 V-ups

20 push-ups

40 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 6:

35 sit ups

25 crunches

45 sec plank

35 V-ups

25 push-ups

45 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 7:

40 sit ups

30 crunches

50 sec plank

35 V-ups

30 push-ups

50 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 8:

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 9:

45 sit ups

35 crunches

55 sec plank

40 V-ups

35 push-ups

55 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Day 10:

50 sit ups

40 crunches

60 sec plank

40 V-ups

40 push-ups

60 sqauts

100 jumping jacks

30 min walk

Tips:

If You Need More Days To Gain Back Your Fitness, Just Follow The Pattern.

Drink A Lot Of Water.

Try To Eat Fruits And Vegs.

Do Each Workout Slowly, Make Sure Your Body Is Fully Engaged.

If You Get Tired, Take Breaks And Then Continue.

Don’t Give Up And Stay SAFE