As An Asexual - I’m Reposting This To Not Only Spread Awareness About It, But Also As My Positive Affirmation

As an Asexual - I’m reposting this to not only spread awareness about it, but also as my positive affirmation for myself that I’m not broken and it’s okay to feel this way

I just read this super sad post about this girl who’s asexual and married and everyone is basically telling her that she doesn’t deserve her husband/she’s just a prude/she should just do it anyway. So I want to tell you all right now that if people tell you this, or if they tell you you’ll never have a relationship, it is BULLSHIT. My husband is asexual and I’m not. He’s sex repulsed, we don’t have sex, we never have. And it doesn’t matter to me. You know what does? He does. His mental health and wellbeing matter to me. Because he is my best friend and he’s one of the smartest, kindest, funniest people I’ve ever met. And he’s had people tel him that he’s broken and it makes me SO ANGRY because they are WRONG. Being different doesnt mean you’re broken. If you don’t like sex/don’t want it/etc. Do not let anyone tell you that you’re inferior because you’re not. Do not let anyone convice you that you’ll never have a relationship because they’re wrong(if you want one). You are not broken, and it will be okay.

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3 years ago
Credit To The Owner (watermark)

Credit to the owner (watermark)

I changed my Home Screen to this on my phone and every time I leave an app I feel obligated to wave back at him every.single.time.

4 years ago

Ok but like this would be so cool to actually see

NCT as shower thoughts

Jaehyun: The Olympics should have a 'For Fun' section at the end of all the games so all the athletes can try different sports.

3 years ago

This comeback is gonna leave me in complete shambles

HIS WAIST I AM GOING INSANE

HIS WAIST I AM GOING INSANE
3 years ago

Jenos … just jenos…

NCT DREAM HEADCANONS : DOMESTICITY.

NCT DREAM HEADCANONS : DOMESTICITY.

❀ mark — it’s the feeling of sinking into the bed, next to each other, after a long day; your leg on his or his on yours, feeling a sense of peace simply by the proximity. it’s him seeing you hit the snooze button again and again in the morning and instead of calling you out on it, he turns the alarm off for you so that you can sleep in peace. it’s him giving you massages and rubs when you’re tired. it’s you cooking dinner and him sitting on the counter, the two of you talking about your days, and you having to slap his hand away when he tries to steal some pieces of food that you’re preparing.

❀ renjun — it’s the feeling of warm tea in your hand on winter nights as you catch up with each other’s days on the couch. it’s the casual and weirdly calm bickering in the morning while you’re getting ready because you’re both kinda grumpy and yet always giving each other a quick ‘have a good day’ peck before leaving the house. it’s using each other’s skincare and cosmetic products when one’s run out. it’s him waking up in the middle of night to see that you’re not under the covers then sleepily tucking you in and pulling you close to him before falling asleep again, with you in his arms.

❀ jeno — it’s the feeling of getting inside the house after being out for too long during a winter day, being greeted by his warm hug and instantly feeling at home. it’s the sight of him sleeping on the couch when you wake up in the morning and when you ask him why, he tells you that the cat fell asleep against his arm and he didn’t want to wake it up. it’s him trying his best to quietly and gently adjust something around you when you’ve fallen asleep: taking off your glasses, securing the blanket around you, pulling the open book away so that you don’t bend the pages and bookmarking it for you, etc.

❀ haechan — it’s the feeling of waking up early in the morning then realizing you have no schedule for the day so you just happily cuddle up to him and drifting off to sleep to the sound of his soft breathing and chirping birds. it’s smiling at the heart-warming sight of him keeping your relatives’ kids entertained and happy. it’s giving your neighbors nicknames like ‘cat lady’ or ‘spidey undies’ because you never got a chance to learn their names. it’s helping each other with zips, buttons, and ties when getting ready while also casually having a conversation.

❀ jaemin — it’s the feeling of opening the windows after the rain has passed and breathing in the earthy scent. it’s him letting you hog the blankets (mostly because he’s too sleepy to care). it’s him, knowing and remembering your favorite characters — and the ones you hate — on your favorite shows even though he has never watched them. it’s you losing tv remote and spending the whole day trying to look for it; then him coming home and finding it in a minute. it’s him coming home from a hangout and holding up a bag containing desserts because he wants to share them with you.

❀ chenle — it’s the feeling of looking up at the sky from your balcony, and jumping in excitement and pure joy together because you can see the stars and that’s rare in the city. it’s him knowing your exact clothing sizes and discreetly replacing your favorite clothes because he messed up and ruined them while doing laundry. it’s conversations like these when going out: “did you turn off the stove?” “of course, i did.” “are you sure?” “yeah…wait, did i? did you see me do it?” “i don’t know, i was switching off the lights.” this usually ends with the both of you begrudgingly going back home to make sure.

❀ jisung — it’s the feeling of being woken up in the morning with small kisses littered across your face, the feeling that instantly brings a smile upon your lips. it’s playing mobile games together on summer nights, the atmosphere lazily exciting yet calming, the faint sound of chirping outside can be heard. it’s the grocery shopping where he’s the one pushing the cart and it’s him trying to sneak a few too many snacks into the cart when you’re not looking, but begrudgingly relenting when you notice and take them out.

NCT DREAM HEADCANONS : DOMESTICITY.

nct masterlist.

3 years ago

5. The fact that haechan juts his top lip out when he finds something funny but can’t laugh bc he’s the victim

Let’s see what’s been on my mind all week:

1. Small spoon jeno 🥺

2. Cutie boy mark and his laugh and obsession w watermelon 😭💕

3. Dom-ing Ten 🥴

4. HARD Dom Johnny and Yuta 🖐🏻😮‍💨

3 years ago

“Mark, you are NOT the father”


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3 years ago

Reblog and put in the tags whether or not most people can spell your name correctly without you spelling it for them


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3 years ago

Why tf is he so attractive like there’s GOTTA be a law somewhere saying this is illegal

This Genre Of Lee Jeno 🤯
This Genre Of Lee Jeno 🤯
This Genre Of Lee Jeno 🤯
This Genre Of Lee Jeno 🤯

this genre of lee jeno 🤯

3 years ago

Cat 🥺💛

Black cats are lucky. (via leahweissmuller)

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