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tater bringing up “shape of you” lyrics out of nowhere is a severe case of homosexual down badism

The hard truth that they don’t want to hear. Straight asexuals aren’t a systemically oppressed minority and it’s disrespectful for them to act like they are. (And I’m speaking as someone who’s likely aromantic)

The domination of male-coded language.

Especially in the 2010’s, everyone called each other “bro” and “dude”. I’m sure it even happened before this timeframe. Doesn’t matter who is who, what is what. You called everyone and everything “Bro” “Bruh” “Dude” “Man”.

Not many complained. Actually, the expression was shared back. Another way of saying homie. Everyone said it. Everyone accepted it.

Even till this day, for the most part, it is a part of our daily language. It’s become common language, usually to specify friendliness and common ground.

But why doesn’t this happen with female-coded language?

“Girl” “Girlypop” “Bestie”. While I’ll admit, Bestie is not technically female coded, a lot of women do use this word.

I think about how so many people, especially men, get annoyed or upset when called “Girl”. Even “Bestie”. I see men talk about it on Social Media, about how much they hate getting called that. They get annoyed. It’s even come to a point, it is seen as transphobic, we cannot call people Girly Pop or Girl because it can offend someone who is trans identifying.

People come to the defense “well not everyone feels comfortable with that” “not everyone identifies as female”. But only when people are offended by the female-coded terms.

Where is the same energy with women getting offended by being called Bro and Dude? During the 2010’s Giant SJW Bash, I’ve seen women come out that they hated being called Bro and Dude. And nobody had that same logic. They told these women, get over it. Everyone gets called Dude & Bro. It’s normal. It’s a good thing.

The normalization that being male is gender neutrality.

Being called Dude, Bro, Man— it’s ok. Even if you don’t like it. Even if you’re not a man. You should be lucky to be seen as a fellow…man…

#Rambling Thoughts

GIVE ME THIS SCENE NOW

every new angle is killing me

i have hsf on my watchlist, im just waiting for the right mood 🙏🏻

first of all, bonnie looks like she has a lil attitude and it’s hot. second of all, my oatrak </3

male/female socialisation is the fact that in the middle of a meltdown usually autistic males punch around themselves with no concern while we punch ourselves because of concern

yeah

smosh games cute wallpaper based on the stickers they did <3