Support the ones with special interests that are praised, sought for or impressive; the ones whose special interests are mundane and everyday things, or even frowned upon and support Autistics who can't explain their special interest. Support Autistics with no special interest, too.
I'm not the first to say this. I won't be the last to say this.
But if you support Autistics, you need to support all Autistics.
Support the ones with moderate needs, the ones with high needs. The ones that are loud. The ones that haven't learnt any social skills and are seen as embarrassing by allistics.
Support the ones who are hyperverbal and talk way too much about their special interest.
Support the ones who are nonverbal and communicate with AAC and struggle to be heard.
Support the ones with stereotypical behaviours and then ones who mask so hard they deny they're autistic at all.
Support the Autistic parents who are exhausted all the time and the Autistics who still live with their parents.
Support Autistics all the time. Not just when they make you feel good.
“how could you be so stupid” well you know what. its really not that hard
#piss on
Piss
Look at em
The autistic feel of never asserting boundaries, not because you don’t understand that you deserve to have your boundaries respected, but because the social script of asserting boundaries while making sure that the other person doesn’t feel attacked is one that you never got the knack of delivering, so your only two options are “doormat” or “bitchy and difficult”
Honestly, to any fellow neurodivergents that struggle with doing tasks: have you tried doing the task intentionally badly?
I'm serious. I always used to struggle with getting schoolwork done on time. Then one day, out of a place of spite, I tried to write the shittiest assignment the teacher ever damn graded. (It was a stupid assignment.) Got fed up with the bit halfway through and began writing the assignment in earnest. This has helped me start shit halfway since.
Even if it doesn't work like that for other people, half-assed is better than not finished. Half ass cleaning? Guess what, the space is still cleaner.
If you are reading this, I encourage you to try that thing you are procrastinating on or struggling with using the minimum effort possible.
Autistic Burnout 🧩🔥
ND culture is realizing you are so much happier living alone because you can unmask and it actually makes you more productive because your brain isn’t constantly worried about staying masked
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Hi everyone,
I found some more information about autistic burnout. According to this article:
“Autistic Burnout is usually a consequence of camouflaging or masking for either an extended period or over a period of time without a break, as it takes a huge amount of effort. It can also be a result of sensory overload, executive functioning demands (juggling too many tasks at once), or stress associated with unexpected change(s).
Over time, burnout can affect a person's overall health as the body's resources are being used, and not being replaced, which also leaves nothing spare for any recovery.”
I’ll leave the link here in case you’d like to read the entire article.
I hope many of you find this helpful.
Autistic Burnout
Ok, God, I am fucking wheezing, I got trained to work with mice today since I’ll need them for some experiments and the guy who trained me was like, “Yeah ok so if there’s a day where you just absolutely cannot get your mice to cooperate you can always do this” and picks up this cone-shaped bag and just put the mouse face-first into it and shows it to me and I lose my shit because deadass it was a piping-bag of mouse. Like, the whole mouse was pressed into this cone, fur and ears and feet all pressed up against the plastic, tail sticking up absurdly out of the top of the thing. It was so unimaginably fucking funny but like the mouse was perfectly ok with it, there’s a hole for air at the bottom so she could breathe and all but it was genuinely the most absurd thing I have witnessed in months
And they say brunettes with dimples can’t stabilize the reactor core 😏
this man will accept any harmful interference this man will not generate harmful interference this man is tested and proven to not spontaneously combust under normal conditions (surface of the ☀️)
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