Have you ever thought abt donating your hair? It‘s gorgeous. Happy Indigenous people‘s day and happy Canadian Thanksgiving! 🇺🇲🇨🇦🇺🇲🇨🇦🇺🇲🇨🇦
Lmao, your question made me think of Damian from Mean Girls when he complimented Cady's hair, "Is that your natural hair color? It's gorgeous."
But yeah! I do try to donate my hair at least once a year, it's pretty much the only reason I ever grow it out so long. I'm Canadian American, I live in the U.S so it's not Thanksgiving for me yet, but nonetheless thank you! ❤️💙
will you make another one of these for winter? And can you do a fall skincare routine??
I could do that, I was going to do some winter/Christmas home decor & baking anyway so I'll just add that to my list. I have several skincare routines up, there are also a lot of hygiene & skincare products I recommend on Insta. 🖤
Hello. My name is Nica. I want to stay anon until I get comfortable and I‘m not good with new people. But my question is, how do you advise someone to deal with their depression? Do you know any remedies that help with chronic sadness? Or panic attacks? My life isn‘t where I want it to be atm, dealing with a lot of stuff and I don‘t have any friends to talk to or get help from. Sorry if I‘m bothering you in the morning I just saw that you‘re leaving tumblr and it triggered an attack and I feel like crying. You were the one blog I liked and how you helped people and now I don‘t have anybody :/
Omg. No, no, no, you're not bothering me at all, & you're not just going to wake up one day & my account is going to be deactivated. I'll tell you all when I'm leaving & chances are I still won't deactivate, just cause. I'm so, so sorry, I didn't mean to trigger you. It was just an idea I had. I used to have really bad panic attacks to a point were my muscles would hurt for days, I had to be taken in an ambulance & put on meds cause I had them daily for like a month. I wouldn't eat, I was constantly snapping on people & irritated. I turned into someone who isn't me. My family noticed the change & pointed it out & I snapped on them for that. It was that bad. And this was recent, this wasn't like 5 years ago, all this happened LAST year. So I know from experience how difficult & painful what you're going through right now can be.
Even though I still have anxiety sometimes, I learned how to stop the attacks from happening, I don't have them anymore. But before then my doctor wanted to put me in a psych ward, (yeah, he literally recommended that) & I took Xanax (& Zoloft for two days) for a while, then it stopped helping, so he wanted to increase my dose. And I didn't want to become an addict or dependent on meds (I personally don't believe in taking meds for mental illnesses), so one day I just decided "fuck it, I'm not taking anything anymore" & I realized in that moment that the decision I made scared me a fucking lot cause I wasn't going to have anything to run to, but ultimately it was going to help me. I had to hurt & pray A LOT before I got better. While I was going through it I felt so hopeless & lost & I started questioning my faith in God cause I didn't feel like anything was changing, I felt worse tbh. I remember one night I just completely gave up & I drove to my mom's house in the middle of the night cause I didn't know what else to do. We went for a walk & talked until the sun came up. I never call my parents when I'm going through something terrible, I always try to resolve my problems on my own, so if I call them it's serious. But with time I got better. And I'm happier. So I'm living proof that you CAN overcome your biggest demons. My advice to you would be to start slow, you won't get better overnight. It's going to take time & it's going to hurt - I won't lie to you, but you WILL prevail in the end. But for now, distract yourself, get on your phone & find a funny video. Give yourself time to breathe & realize you're safe. That feeling will pass & you'll be okay again. & if you ever need someone to talk to to help you calm down, come hop in my dm's & we can hang out until you feel better. You don't have to be alone. & you definitely don't have to suffer alone. I often get people who ask me for advice in handling depression, that's partially the reason I haven't left Tumblr. I wouldn't want to abandon anybody. I'm so sorry you're going through this, honey. I hope things get better for you. Literally if you need me to just stay here for you just to help you, I will. & if you need any more resources in dealing with anxiety/depression, dm me. I'm so sorry for triggering you. I'll choose my words more carefully next time. Bless your heart, I'll pray for you.
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Organizations:
National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH); 866-615-6464
National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI); 800-950-NAMI (800-950-6264)
Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA); 240-485-1001
American Psychiatric Association; 800-357-7924
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Division of Mental Health (CDC); 800-CDC-INFO (800-232-4636)
American Psychological Association; 800-374-2721
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Coping, Advocacy, and Support:
Anxiety and Depression Association of America: Support Groups
The Anxiety Network: Help and Support
Anxiety Central: Forums
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Medications for Anxiety Disorders (talk to your doctor first):
Cymbalta (duloxetine)
Celexa (citalopram)
Zoloft (sertraline)
Anafranil (clomipramine)
Prozac (fluoxetine)
Paxil (paroxetine)
Xanax (alprazolam)
Klonopin (clonazepam)
BuSpar (buspirone)
Valium (diazepam)
Ativan (lorazepam)
Lexapro (escitalopram)
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Links:
https://www.counseling.org/knowledge-center/mental-health-resources/anxiety
https://adaa.org/understanding-anxiety/generalized-anxiety-disorder-gad/resources
https://blog.thetransitionhouse.org/anxiety-help-and-resources-1
https://www.rtor.org/anxiety/
https://www.nami.org/About-Mental-Illness/Mental-Health-Conditions/Anxiety-Disorders
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Do you have a girlfriend your hot af and I wanna have your babies don't block me
Um...
Suddenly I have to go...handle something...yeah. Yeah. Bye.
🍄🍂 Hey! Happy fall! 🍂🍄
I have a youtube request: the lavender scented candles you did in the summer, do you think you could do some fall candles from scratch too? I like how you infuse the real ingredients like with the lavender candle, the real lavender flowers in the candle. Can you do an apple scented candle with some of the apples from your garden? And some fall cooking would be appreciated! 😊😊 I need new recipes to impress my family for TG, lmao!! 🦃🦃
✨🎃 Happy Fall, Rose! 🎃✨
Just put up a recipe video yesterday making a mocha frappe, apple cider donuts & buffalo ranch chicken & cheese nachos. As fall progresses I will be making more fall themed cooking/baking, foraging, shopping & home decor vids. I'll be making pumpkin spice bread & beef stew in the next one. & I'll do your candle request soon! I'll probably make it an apple cinnamon candle. ☺️✨🍁
Window flowers ♡
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