negative self talk: tune into your inner voice and turn mean thoughts into kind ones
prioritising comfort over progress: you have to actually do the work, then enjoy your rest and comfort (with less anxiety too)
hanging around the wrong people: you are the sum of the people you spend the most time with, choose your friends carefully
never taking responsibility: tough stuff happens to everybody, focus on what you can control (you) rather than blaming outside circumstances (not talking about trauma here obviously)
expecting praise for 'being yourself': you're good enough as you are in a spiritual sense, but if you want to be excellent at something you have to actually do the work, not just expect praise and reward for just showing up
liking the aesthetic more than the work: do you want to achieve that goal or do you just like how it looks on pinterest??? make sure you derive some level of pleasure and satisfaction from the pursuit
overthinking: seriously just tell your brain to shut up. stop over intellectualising and over thinking every single thing. find your heart to guide you and save your brain power for working on your passions...
sometimes you just have to say “i’m too pretty for this” and move on
three moods forever
I feel like girls with brown hair are deers and girls with blond hair are bunnies and girls with black hair are cats
stop comparing yourself to others! everyone has their own journey. focus on your progress and achievements.
celebrate your wins! no matter how small, acknowledging your successes can boost your confidence.
embrace your failures! see them as learning opportunities rather than setbacks.
step out of your comfort zone! trying new thingsyou can help you grow and build confidence.
practice positive self-talk! replace negative thoughts with positive affirmations.
set realistic goals! achieving small, manageable goals can build your confidence over time.
seek feedback! constructive feedback can help you improve and feel more confident in your abilities.
remember, confidence is a skill that can be developed with practice. you’ve got this! 💪
❤️nene
let it really sink in.
it was never meant to be easy, yet, you’re doing it.
stop doubting yourself.