Do You Actually Care About Trans Men Or Do You Relegate Male Pregnancy To The Status Of "gross But Funny

do you actually care about trans men or do you relegate male pregnancy to the status of "gross but funny fanfiction trope" at best and "literal body horror" at worst? do you actually care about trans men or have you accepted without question the ideas that bottom growth is a borderline-torturously painful process and phalloplasty is a dangerous surgery with objectively unsatisfactory results because they confirm your implicit assumptions about the violence and horror of masculinization? do you actually care about trans men or do you think testosterone being a controlled substance is fair because you prioritize fairness in sports more highly than transmasculine lives? do you actually care about trans men or do you distance yourself from us as we transition and make half-joking comments about us being traitors because you view transmasculinity as a shift from ally to enemy? do you actually care about trans men or do you get mad at us when we read transmasculine experiences into female characters because you see it as an act of theft and believe transmasculinity is inherently less valuable than womanhood? do you actually care about trans men or is your first thought when you see a transition timeline about how pretty the "before" picture is? do you actually care about trans men or does your interest in our lives begin and end with how badly you want a boypussy to fuck?

do we exist to you as real people or only in theory? do you read the stories we tell, listen to the music we make? how many of us can you name? when we speak, do you listen? would you fight for us? do you trust us to know ourselves best? are you our friend? do you mourn us when we're gone? do you care for us while we're still here?

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froginthebag

2 months ago

but fr I'll never take it seriously when someone says "i was abused by men, I'm allowed to hate them and anyone trying to show love for men is an MRA" like you know how many of us were abused by our mothers and it's still (rightfully) considered not okay to say that women are all abusers just waiting to kill their children. If you blame violence on someones gender instead of the societal mechanisms that encourage and allow violent and harmful behaviour you're perpetuating that cycle.

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froginthebag

8 months ago

They know exactly what they're doing.

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7 months ago

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and onwards!

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froginthebag

1 year ago

still thinking about how i genuinely believed if I went through the devil ending i'd be able to romance Takemura. My V has his ass absolutely played and the fact that Takemura was alive to be able to come and get the deal signed is/was the final nail in my coffin. I got absolutely bamboozled and it's delicious.

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froginthebag

6 months ago

i think im going to lose my fucking mind actually.

this little make believe game that yall are playing where ur all pretending that we have always been passing as cis men is honestly just really sickening to read. as if trans men have never been sexually harassed or abused because society perceives us as women. im genuinely of the opinion that u all just do not believe trans men face misogyny and thats so unbelievably fucked up and just not based in reality. its actually disgusting and vile.

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froginthebag

3 years ago

have frogs husband. Loving how unpredictable my presense here is

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egad frog posted anyways have funky demon man he is a giant simp literally. hes like.. nine feet?? gotta make up for your hubby originally being 8’6 feet.. he has been reduced to an understandable 5’11 reduced literally. poor dude anyways his ”human” form is like six feet so he looked tiny next to frog

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froginthebag

2 years ago

autism be damned my boy can kill

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froginthebag

6 months ago