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Hi, 🌸
I'm FARAH. My family has lost everything in the war in Gaza. We’ve shared our story on GoFundMe, and we would be grateful if you could take a moment to see the pinned post, reblog it, and donate if possible.
Here’s the link to our story:
https://gofund.me/0dd287db
Thank you so much for your support.
Best regards, 💚
Farah
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and onwards!
always drawing the daintier guy in a gay ship as trans is not the allyship or trans rep you think it is
ditto for always making one part of every gay ship trans. especially as a cis straight woman.
the classic Finnish mix of extreme dutifulness and “we will make actual conversation after a silent interaction trial period of 6 weeks, thank you” can be really funny sometimes. told my coworker that I’d like to save the coffee grounds the workplace generated and take them home “for my mushrooms and worms” and she was just like “okei” and dutifully saved every single grounds-filled filter for weeks and weeks. about five weeks into this whole thing, after I thank her for the coffee grounds and tell her my worms must love them because they’re breeding very enthusiastically, she finally asks “so your worms… do they have a purpose or are they just… worms”. like sure I’ll save you all these coffee grounds every single time I drink coffee, 3+ times a day, but god forbid I inquire about your specific worm habits before propriety allows it. you could be eating them for breakfast for all I know but that’s your business
does disco elysium have gay shit in it? yes. is disco elysium the kind of game i would recommend to someone whose only requirement is "has gay shit in it"? fuck no
the commie shit however.....
(especially when trans misogyny being brought up was also accompanied by (paraphrased) “trans men face it but the issue is lack of vocabulary”))
(full quote being; "Transmisogyny can be a vital term for some of us to communicate the intersection of transphobia and misogyny that we face. But others may experience it more complicatedly or severely, as in the case of transmisogynoir. And for others (e.g., certain nonbinary people, trans male/masculine-spectrum people), misogyny may intersect with transphobia in different ways that aren’t adequately articulated by transmisogyny. This doesn’t necessarily make transmisogyny “wrong”; it may simply mean that we need additional language.")
What do the “trans men don’t experience misogyny” crowd actually think happens. Like do they think someone is just being super misogynistic to a trans man and then he’s like “actually I’m not a girl I’m a guy” and they’re like “oh sorry my bad dude”
To this day, many intersex people are mutilated as infants or toddlers.
From malevolent attempts to make their bodies more visually appealing to completely forcing them into a male/female binary.
Please do not just use our suffering as a 'gotcha' moment to own TERFS and other fascists. Please do not forget about us.
Edit: Also, not all parents know what is done to their child. Sometimes, they are lied to, and they are told that the surgery is necessary or even life-saving. Sometimes they are left completely oblivious, like in my case.
Having your child under the care of female staff/doctors does NOT matter. The surgeon who decided to operate on me was female.
For better readability:
Sometimes they can't wait to clip your wings.
I was two days old.
I was supposed to be a moth.
Instead I had to be pretty.
I seek healing.
I denied the false cocoon.
I'd rather be a clipped moth than a forced butterfly.
I sadly do not know how to properly ID something. Other users have reblogged with IDs however, thank you for your work.