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How To Control a Sub
The following is a list of things that you should be doing. Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things not on the list that work for you.
1. You must absolutely take total control of his orgasms!
You must get him to wear a chastity device of some kind.
You should put it on him yourself and only you should hold the key.
Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing or release.
2. Control your own feelings of guilt.
He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your permission.
If you feel he deserves an orgasm… Ruin it!
Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one.
Full orgasms should be for very special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).
3. You must get into his head!
Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.
Tease him with your words whenever possible.
Find out what humiliates him.
Use his humiliation whenever possible.
4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible.
Talk sexy to him.
Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating.
Fondle him, or let him fondle you.
Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.
Make him give you orgasms frequently.
5. Make him do something humiliating.
Make him wear a butt-plug for a time.
Make him be naked when you are not.
Make him masturbate for you.
Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum no matter where it is deposited.
6. Punish him whenever he displeases you.
Don’t let him get away with anything!
Spank, paddle, or whip him.
Humiliate him in some way.
Put Bengay or Icy-Hot on his cock, balls, or anus.
Make him do anything he hates.
7. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to tease him.
Fondle him through his pants in public (or in private).
Whisper sexy or humiliating things in his ear.
Make him shop for lingerie with you.
These tips are for Men who really want to control a sub and get off on it. The important thing to remember is that there are a LOT of subs who crave this level of control, humiliation and punishment. Many will not admit it but respond well to this type of treatment. Men should not be afraid to exercise as much control over their subs as their time and energy allow. Make no mistake it takes effort, You have to want control. The rewards are enormous.
So true
If someone had told 6 months ago that I would love having my dick locked in a cage, I would have laughed. There’s no way I would love not being able to cum daily. And yet here I am, enjoying being locked up. It’s addictive. My sex drive disappears every time I come, so it’s better when I only focus on making my bf come.
A slave is:
obedient;
respectful;
humble;
submissive;
well-presented;
punctual, and;
productive.
Ground Rules
1. Know your place. Your Owner, other Dominant men, and all men less submissive than you, are your superiors. Even if you dislike them personally or disagree with what they say, you will acknowledge their superiority at all times.
This does not mean doing anything you are told by anyone, but it does mean raising any objections in a respectful way; check with your Owner if in doubt.
2. It’s HIS decision. You may query an order if you need to find out more information or you need to make sure your Owner knows all the facts. You don’t get to disobey or ignore an order on the grounds that you think you know better. Your Owner always knows better than you.
3. Bulk up, boy. Go to the gym as often as possible, work out hard, take your supplements. The more muscle you have, the more valuable a piece of meat you are to your Owner.
4. Slaves don’t cum. Your cock should be locked in its cage for every moment that it’s practical. Whenever it’s not practical, hands off it! The purpose of all sexual and bdsm activities is the pleasure and amusement of your superiors. You can touch your cock to clean it, put it in its cage, or if told to touch it by your Owner. You cannot touch it to pleasure yourself.
The cage will always be worn when you’re engaged in any sexual activity with another man. The one exception is your current vanilla partner. Even in this situation, you will only orgasm if that is his express wish. You will make it clear that cumming is not your preferred option.
You’ll report any orgasm to your Owner for him to decide if you obeyed this rule.
5. Total. Submissive. Bottom. Firstly, stop all pretence of being in any way sexually versatile. Superiors fuck, you get fucked. You pleasure their cocks with your holes. Secondly, you never, ever attempt to dominate another man. Your fundamental nature is completely submissive - be true to it always.
Your Owner can decide who gets to use you, when and how.
6. Wear your collar. Wear visible evidence of your slavery wherever and whenever possible. The chain and lock should be worn whenever it is unlikely to seriously upset those around you, cause a work problem or place you in harm’s way.
You will wear the chain and lock as a rule, removing it as the exception. You’ll report the exceptions to your Owner for him to decide whether it really needed to be removed.
7. Make it obvious. In addition to your chain, you’ll dress in ways that draw attention to your body and accentuate your status as a muscle-jock slave. If in doubt, go for slutty. When possible, go for fetish. In short, do everything you can to make it easy for superior men to sexually objectify you and identify you as the submissive muscle slut you are.
The exceptions to this are situations where dressing this way would cause undue upset to your friends or family, or risk your employment. Report exceptions to your Owner so he can decide if they’re genuine or not.
8. Slaves have tits. Take any and every opportunity to encourage superior men - both strangers and open-minded friends - to play with them.
Make your tits grow, but keep them sensitive and supple. Take proper care of them.
9. You will change. You will cooperate with your Owner to change you in physical and mental ways that make you a better slave. Some changes may be temporary, some will not be. You may become a dumb beast fit only for menial labour, sex, pain and entertainment by the time this process is done, never doubt that is a good thing for you to be.
Humiliation public and private, physical trials, hypnotic conditioning, new rules governing behaviour more closely, or more subtle manipulation may play a part. Embrace this process, accept its inevitability - and cooperate fully. Suggest to your Owner anything you think would help make you more humble and less human.
10. Always be honest. If you break a rule, report it to your Owner immediately. If you feel doubt or worry about something he’s told you to do, respectfully communicate that doubt to him straight away. You can have no secrets from him.
Read the instructions above. Do as you’re told.
So true
And since it’s designed for externally long wear I thought I would have my first post where all of you decided the length!
This post has been up and will count till the end of Sunday.
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*special reward* Follow my other page = 3 days The page is @4gigglesandscreams
I hope I can find someone to train me like this someday.
Milking by Voice Command: After months of training, slaveboi Noah discovers how completely his Master’s control extends.
Sounds like you have an amazingly supportive keyholder. Should be an interesting could of years.
About 150 years ago, when they started building the transcontinental railroad, they said it could be done. They said it would take too long. They said it would cost too much. They said…. They said….
The transcontinental railroad was built and most of it is still in use as a Union Pacific RR line that runs about a mile from where this boy currently sits.
When this boy posted the original Chaste New Year post, the boy thought, There’s no way this will make it to June.
When the boy removed the one year limitation, the boy thought, this might make it to December 2016.
The boys keyholder @roddymcc thought “this is a great time to really keep the boy locked” and put the boys chastity in sale. The boy thought, that the boy might be locked through spring 2017.
The gentle Men and boys of tumblr thought otherwise. And now the boy is starting on a very long journey. A journey of almost twenty eight months. A journey that will see the boy locked for two full calendar years. And then some.
They boy said, “it can’t be done.” You said, “yes it can. And you’re going to do it.”
All aboard for an interesting and chaste two plus years.
A NSFW blog with pictures of me and picture I enjoy from around the interwebs. Mostly documenting me exploring my submissive side and my time in chastity, and now includes some details about my journey transitioning. Ask me anything, feel free to message, always looking to make new friends.
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