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Matthew Williamson Prefall 2014 collection

I absolutely love this dress

Don’t ever compliment me by insulting other women. That’s not a compliment, it’s a competition none of us agreed to.

jaythenerdkid (via escapedgoat)

Plus, if you’re a man, it just tells me you’re a douche.

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In need of sugar advice!

I'm supposed to be meeting a pot tomorrow. I've been asking him to share photos, he won't because he is married and needs discretion. I've looked up his cell number, no name. I've searched his email, nothing useable. I told him up front that sex is not a priority for me so I am not worried about him trying anything. If I do decide to meet him I am driving my own car to and from. I am meeting him in the middle of the day in a public place for lunch. I am pretty confident that I am setting up a safe meet. I just can't seem to get over his mysterious way. I feel like I should call it off because I've read so much about red flags and these things seem to be red flags to me. Opinions? Advice? If you know of any pages that answer questions please let me know! Please repost!

Him: I don’t date black women. It’s just a preference. Me: Based on what? Him: Nothing, it’s just how I feel. Me: Impossible, deliberate aversions come from somewhere. Him: Its just a preference, that’s all. Me: No, a preference is preferring broccoli to asparagus. You can say that because asparagus will always taste the same, even when prepared differently. Him: And? Me: And we’re not always the same at all. There are hundreds of millions of us and we’re each completely different from the next. If an employer said not hiring Black people was a preference would you agree? Him: No, but that’s based on stereotypes. Me: … And what is yours based on, facts?

(via bodypartss)

oh lord

This type of shit makes me sick. This is retarded. What kind of friend is this?

How do you screen? There's nothing in Canada you can use :(

I know in Canada it’s a little more difficult, but honestly Google is your best friend - you just have to channel your inner FBI/stalker status!

I always start out on Google and usually once you start to search you’ll find out bits of information that you can add to your search & use to help you find more stuff. 

I google any info he gives me access to:- His name- His name + province or state he lives in - His name/email + popular social media accounts (Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn etc)- His email (I’ve found a lot info by just googling the beginning of his email before the @).- His phone number - His username (It seems silly but unless it’s tailored to the site a lot of these men use the same damn username for all manner of sites/memberships they have)- His job/company (if he’s shared that with me)*If he doesn’t give you his company name or tell you what he does doing these google search combinations usually will tell me what he does.

Just from Google I’ve found things such as all parking tickets dated back to 1991 for one POT and lawsuits/patents that another POTs company has been involved with etc. If I can find his social media or even any social media belonging to his family members I always make sure to creep because you can get a lot of info that way. 

I Google Reverse Image search any pictures he’s sent me to let me know if he’s jacked one from the internet. Sometimes you’ll get lucky and he’ll have used a picture from one of his social media sites which eliminates another step. 

Hotmail believe it or not has also turned into a really helpful tool to start my screening process. I try to get his email as soon as possible and once I email him from my account if he has a Facebook account associated with the email he gives me once I’ve sent the email that pops up without you even doing anything (I don’t think they realize)!A lot of times you’ll get lucky and these men won’t have a separate sugaring email address and/or will give you their work email on a silver platter too. 

For my US POTs I haven’t yet paid for a membership, but I do use Spokeo to cross reference info I’ve found. It brings up a shit ton of stuff even for free so it’s well worth it. Again, I’ve been lucky with easily finding out a lot about my US Pots, but If I couldn’t find anything out about a guy I would pay for it. It’s a shame it doesn’t cater to Canadians as well. 

* I did have a website that I can’t remember/find the URL to (I’ll search & add it) that did a free criminal record check if you ran the name of the person and the year they were born in the search engine. 

Sorry that this is a novel, there’s nothing better than that jackpot feeling when you find things out. To be honest this is just what I do & I’m always looking to up my game so if any other SBs Canadian or not have anything to add feel free to chime in!

Okay ladies! Many of you ask what you should wear on a POT date. Well in all honesty it depends.  Many babies say to not wear pants but if you have bad legs then you obviously don’t want to show them off. Personally I have pale legs and great boobs so I usually go for leather pants that make my ass look hot and a plungging shirt to showcase my chest. Now the outfit on the left is very casual. It’s meant for a lunch date in a nice area. The flats are trendy, classy and chic and the bag adds a pop of color. The outfit on the right is a bit more dressy, this can also be great for lunch at a nice restaurant or maybe an early dinner. The only difference is the pointed heels and the grey bag, these add a more upscale touch. Each outfit is under $150.

I'm following ALL $UGAR BABIE$!!!

"Note This" and I’m following you! Let’s correspond ladies!!!! We’re all in this together! 💅💄👙👗👜👝👛💎💵 And again I am ALWAYS up for giving and getting advice and answering $ugar questions.. Hit me up 702-743-2944… Lets be Sugar friend’s💋

I really wish there was a way for me to read the messages from SD4Me without having to pay money. -_- This is so frustrating.

Me: *sits in towel for 6 months after showering*

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This isn't related to your blog; I was hoping if you could kinda boost this for your female followers in TX or any girl who lives in Houston. Be wary if someone named "thenanashi" here on Tumblr tries to contact you ladies, he found my blog back in September and I didn't feel comfortable with all the questions he was asking. I blocked him but he tries to talk, or meet, up with you through Tumblr. He stalks the Houston tag or your blog itself. Search his name and you'll see the proof. Be careful.

http://lavenueduluxe.tumblr.com/

Make yourself so happy so that when others look at you they become happy, too.

Yogi Bhajan  (via fuckinq)

When the time comes and he offers you an allowance and it’s too low, and you’d like to get more, it’s always awkward to say, uh that’s not enough can I have more? Or maybe you’re too nervous to ask for a higher number. I have this phrase saved on my phone in my notes and it…

Spring break is almost over 😭

I've been taking a break this week. By break I mean I haven't been doing shit... Where are my Houston sugars? I want to get a few girls together soon for a sugars night out. We need more sugar friends! What do you think?

Our parents warned us about middle aged men stalking us on the Internet but oh how the tables have turned

reasons i want to look GOOD 

for myself

for myself

to plant the seed of envy in other bitch’s hearts

for myself

oh man the best is when a dude is like "you’re not wife material." fucking good. i want to be totalitarian dictator material; blood sucking life ruiner material; fucking bulletproof immortal drug lord material. not your fucking wife you gross asshole. 

If you command me to do something that I was already planning on doing the chances of me doing that thing automatically drop to zero

Me in a nutshell.

autumn calls for grey and dark shades of red

Rad Luxury - follow for follow

Rad Luxury - follow for follow

fun date idea: Go down on me while I shop online with ur credit card

Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are built from it.

Michelle K., Some. (via michellekpoems)