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Date these SDs

I’ve never done ppm. I’ve never done “x allowance for y meets per month”. I wouldn’t do them now. If you really want a guys financial attention long term, make them care about you. Let them take care of you. Don’t let them know they’re paying for it. It doesn’t matter if he told you he loved you, that’s lust. Once it gets too expensive or the new shiny bauble comes by, you’re history.

If you want that to last, you need to make yourself indispensable to these men. You need them to think that you’re a one and only. You also need them to forget they’re paying you. Most men will quickly grow tired of their wallets being the only way to get his attention. Yes by then you might have gotten a lot of cash out of him, but think about how much more you could have gotten.

I’m not saying be clingy, i’m not saying be lovey dovey, i’m saying be special. become an integral part of their life, so those bank transfers feel normal, like paying bills, not like paying this girl to be nice to me. Don’t do nice things because they buy you stuff or give you cash. You might think that’s counter-intuitive but consider it. (Most of) These men aren’t stupid. they can tell that you only stay over when you get offered a gift. They can tell that you only responded to them when they said they’d send you a gift card. They can tell you only care about the money. And, unless he’s a financial submissive, he’s gonna drop a girl after a while if all she values in him is his cash.

That’s why I encourage you girls to get off these sugar sites. I’m not saying you can’t make money off them, i’m just saying the payoff to how much work you have to do is low. most SRs these days are just long term escort client relationships. Don’t be afraid to break the mold and actually date these dudes. You get so much more money when you actually mean something to them and aren’t just another piece of ass they have to pay for.

Dating these dudes is why I retired, its why I’m starting multiple businesses, it’s why I can comfortable stop working completely and not have my bank account go low. Spoiled GF gets you the most buck for your bang. 

I'm not necessarily religious but.... THIS.

I sugar and I think I do a decent job for someone who just started in early December of 2013. Of course what had drawn me to do this was my financial issues but I’ve always been attracted to older men my whole life. The more I’m in engaged in what seems to be a secondary world where beauty in...

Ashley Madison

I've been trying it out and see a lot of the guys from SA here. Though there is much more BS to sift through, it turns the tables and puts us in control. Guys have to pay for most features. So far I've racked up 3 pots who I will actually be meeting. Dates tba but definitely potential... If anything it's great practice. Anyone have any luck with AM?

something better is coming. the key is to work hard, take the necessary steps to get there, and trust that you deserve all the goodness coming to you. let go of all worry or doubt. what you want is already yours!

Lol my cheating, lying, mentally, verbally, emotionally abusive, “boyfriend” who refuses to even publicly acknowledge me is upset because i won’t kiss him.

Don't forget the tag #sugar advice

1. Research, Research, Reasearch!!

Make sure you read all about SB/SD relationships before you hop into the bowl! There are numerous resources, youtube is a good one, you can look up anything definitely focus on the SD experience videos, I recommend.

Movies to...

Me: *sits in towel for 6 months after showering*