stopped reading. deleted.
white people don’t need my help to be demonized. there’s all…. -waves in general direction of centuries of colonialism, imperialism, racism, and current globalized capitalism- ….that.
Don’t ever compliment me by insulting other women. That’s not a compliment, it’s a competition none of us agreed to.
jaythenerdkid (via escapedgoat)
Plus, if you’re a man, it just tells me you’re a douche.
(via azucar-rosa)
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The Rooshv forum guy that makes his dates pay and tries to fuck for free. Add to your block list ladies.
Ty thesugarnextdoor!
This is a way to find successful freestyling spots, it helps give you an idea of what places to start.
Step 1: Go to yelp.com/(your city here)
Ex: yelp.com/dallas
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Step 2: Go to the category that best fits what you’re looking for (Clubs, bars, coffee shops, etc.
Ex: Lets...
Men often react to women’s words - speaking and writing - as if they were acts of violence; sometimes men react to women’s words with violence. So we lower our voices. Women whisper, Women apologize. Women shut up. Women trivialize what we know. Women shrink. Women pull back. Most women have experienced enough dominance from men - control, violence, insult, contempt - that no threat seems empty
Andrea Dworkin - Intercourse (via echo-chamber)
I’ve never done ppm. I’ve never done “x allowance for y meets per month”. I wouldn’t do them now. If you really want a guys financial attention long term, make them care about you. Let them take care of you. Don’t let them know they’re paying for it. It doesn’t matter if he told you he loved you, that’s lust. Once it gets too expensive or the new shiny bauble comes by, you’re history.
If you want that to last, you need to make yourself indispensable to these men. You need them to think that you’re a one and only. You also need them to forget they’re paying you. Most men will quickly grow tired of their wallets being the only way to get his attention. Yes by then you might have gotten a lot of cash out of him, but think about how much more you could have gotten.
I’m not saying be clingy, i’m not saying be lovey dovey, i’m saying be special. become an integral part of their life, so those bank transfers feel normal, like paying bills, not like paying this girl to be nice to me. Don’t do nice things because they buy you stuff or give you cash. You might think that’s counter-intuitive but consider it. (Most of) These men aren’t stupid. they can tell that you only stay over when you get offered a gift. They can tell that you only responded to them when they said they’d send you a gift card. They can tell you only care about the money. And, unless he’s a financial submissive, he’s gonna drop a girl after a while if all she values in him is his cash.
That’s why I encourage you girls to get off these sugar sites. I’m not saying you can’t make money off them, i’m just saying the payoff to how much work you have to do is low. most SRs these days are just long term escort client relationships. Don’t be afraid to break the mold and actually date these dudes. You get so much more money when you actually mean something to them and aren’t just another piece of ass they have to pay for.
Dating these dudes is why I retired, its why I’m starting multiple businesses, it’s why I can comfortable stop working completely and not have my bank account go low. Spoiled GF gets you the most buck for your bang.
I had a date this weekend with a super attractive POT. Our date was dinner at a comedy show and we didn't do much talking there but he's expressed a lot of interest so far through messages and phone calls He even changed his screen name to one reflecting his want to be a Sugar Daddy. Before we met he was honest and told me that he had never actually heard the terms "SD or SB" but that he looked into it before contacting me and liked the idea... I'm trying to get him our for brunch so that we can move forward soon. I'm in the midst of getting a job and also POT from Dallas will be here within the next week or so. In other news I took it upon myself to rekindle an old friendship this weekend, talk about awesome. I went to a party and had a blast. I really needed the change up. My life had gotten so sad and stale in that relationship I was feeling all sorts of conflicted but when I woke up on Saturday I felt like the old me. I miss it and I'm glad this bs will be out of my hair soon.