Honestly There’s Nothing Left To Be Said. You Already Know How To Shift Even If You Think You Don’t.

after rain

“WHAT WILL MAKE ME SHIFT? WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO?”

“do i robotically affirm? do i try to detach and let go? what will make me shift? help me please, what do i do?”

do whatever feels right to you. and you’ve probably heard this a bunch of times, but just listen.

you read a bunch of posts every day, waiting for the post that will supposedly help you figure out what you’re missing. what the “key” to shifting is. you try so many methods, even if you don’t feel comfortable doing them. hell, you’ll even lay in a starfish position if you have to. but here’s the thing, you don’t HAVE to.

you don’t have to do anything. only if you want to.

shifting is a personal journey. shifting is knowing that you’re free and you’re not bound to this one reality. you are able to experience multiple others. if shifting is supposed to feel freeing, why do you think you have to do all this stuff even if you don’t want to do them? you see people say “robotically affirming is a must,” and you follow that, even if you don’t want to do that. you see people say “let go and detach” and even if you don’t want to do that, you do it anyways. why? you think it’ll make you shift?

the only thing or person that can make you shift is you. nothing is needed when it comes to shifting. a script is not needed. a method is not needed. nothing is truly needed unless you want it to be needed. its all about want. do you want to do that stuff? do you want to let go and try to detach from this reality? then do it. go ahead. experiment if you want to. if letting go isn’t your thing, then try another. or don’t try anything at all.

and if you’re indecisive and you don’t know what to try, then lets forget about all the known methods and advice for a second. sit down and think “i know what shifting is, great. how do i want to do it?”

but only do that if you want.

if this sounds confusing, i’ll end it here. all i’m trying to say is do what you want, because at the end of the day, nothing is stopping you from shifting. you can forget everything i just said if you want to and do those methods, like laying in a starfish position even if it makes you uncomfortable. you don’t have to listen to every post and piece of advice you hear. but you can if you want to.

But how do I stop checking and waiting if in front of my eyes there is always this damn 3D? I can affirm many times that I am in my DR but it doesnt change the fact that I see all the time that I am not and it is so so tiring. Sorry if my questions are annoying

3d only feels like proof because you believe it is. you see your cr, so you assume it’s real. but reality is just a feedback loop of what you accept as true.

stop waiting for 3d to change first. you change first.

you shift by deciding the 3d is irrelevant. like a rerun of a show you’ve already moved on from.

you don’t argue with it, you don’t wait for it. you just stop caring. and when you stop caring, it stops mattering. and when it stops mattering, it shifts.

maybe you’re gonna be the one that saves me

gaining consciousness in my arrowverse dr for what felt like only three minutes (but i suspect it was longer..)

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i was desperate. yet again.. if you remember my first post on a successful shift (where i opened my eyes) i had gone to sleep in desperation and intense desire to leave this reality. and the reason i bring this up? so that you know how easy and how capable it is to shift, even in the throws of desperation

it was a standard story — i stayed up late, contemplated existence, had a random burst of motivation to write 2k words for one of my fics, sat and stared at the wall while imagining edits to the music i was listening to, got distracted by barry allen edits before finally deciding to lay my head on the pillow and actually make an attempt

i chose an alunir meditation (the one for waiting rooms bcs that’s my main goal) before getting comfortable and allowing myself to relax

the problem is . i had a hard time relaxing.. tossing and turning, random joints spontaneously feeling itchy, distracted thoughts and an overall sense of despondency . but i persevered :/

i dipped in and out of sleep a couple of times and the last thing i remember is getting bothered by my earbuds and nudging them out of my ears before i completely blank out

i don’t know when i started to feel myself waking up again, but i do know how and why .. i could feel another presence beside me. i could feel the mattress dip down and the relaxed sigh of someone who just got into their bed after a long and tiring day

looking back on it now .. i’m surprised how normal?? that felt??

normally i only act this way in my cr with my parents like when my mum comes into my room for some extra crash when she’s going to get groceries, or my dad needs to borrow a charger. i’ll be asleep but i’ll be mentally awake, and i’ll hear their shuffling and recognise their footsteps, so i’ll be completely relaxed albeit a little annoyed by the noise

it’s baffling yet reassuring, the way that there is such normalcy, such seamless existence, between one reality and another i mean IT FELT LIKE IT HAD HAPPENED SO MANY TIMES BEFORE (and IT PROBABLY DID) this was probably something so normal for my dr and my life there

as i felt that sense of consciousness and mental awareness start to kick in, i noticed the faintest sound of cars on roads, a few light horns, just the constant white noised hum of traffic (and i can’t explain this in any other way but) it felt like a state of calm to me. it felt like something i should always expect. i honestly didn’t notice it until i heard a very distinct horn of a truck and then it went back to being the natural form of background noise

at this point, i don’t even know what i was thinking. the only thought i had was sleep. getting more sleep, going back to sleep, staying asleep . sleep

i must have moved or shuffled, i must have done something to indicate my slowly waking self because i was quickly tucked back under the sheets, a soft “shh” whispered against the back of my neck, gentle hands weaving their fingers through my hair and it felt like i was floating yet completely cushioned by some cloud of comfort

^ reading that over . it would sound scary and psychotic if i wasn’t so comfortable with my surroundings aksjdjskdk like, i knew that i could trust this person? i didn’t even remember his name bcs i was so exhausted but i was like “oh. it’s him, i love him… i’m tired” [starts relaxing again]

it felt so fucking relaxing .. it felt like i could sleep for eternity with not a worry in the world, it felt like every stressor was alleviated from my mind with every stroke of his fingers through my hair

and what made it all more worth it than it already was — he quietly started to hum

it was strangely unfamiliar yet so familiar at the same time, it was a melody i’d heard over and over again and yet i couldn’t quite place it but that was probably bcs my body was forcing me to go back to sleep

i really didn’t have much of a choice in the matter unfortunately :/

believe me, as soon as i woke up back here, i wanted to go back there, i wanted to return to that moment of peace, keep it in a capsule of love and take it with me everywhere, i want to paint it onto the canvas of my heart and keep it framed for good bcs i will never forget how complete i felt in that moment

maybe if i had known, maybe if i had been more awake to recognise that i had shifted, that i was in my arrowverse dr, that it was BARRY who had probably just returned from patrol and was finally going to sleep, it was BARRY who had brushed the curls of my hair with a touch so soft it felt like velvet, it was BARRY who’s voice carried me off into the sweetest slumber that cannot be compared

bcs when i tell you that waking up here was JARRING?? i’m not shitting you . i heard my air con, and the neighbourhood cat and i was thrown back into this life with a jolt.

it’s like i relaxed so much, it became too much? that’s the only explanation i can think of

i just stayed on my back, staring at the dark abyss of my room’s ceiling, regulating my mind

i could hear barry in my head but it was different, it was like a memory, bcs at this point it is a memory — i lived something without realising and now all i’ve got is the memory..

i sat up and checked my phone to see that it was 3:24 in the morning, meaning i had officially turned 21 and the birthday blues hit me full swing

bcs i had done it again, i’d shifted, i’d accomplished what i’d wanted, and while i felt happy, i still feel this void.. bcs it felt so NICE and i want to go back so badly

and that’s what i plan to do

anyway, some odd things that i noticed upon waking up here — my headphones (which i remember pulling out of my ears) were now safely back in their case. again. (this has happened before) so i’m assuming my cr-self did it but idk why i can’t remember, idk why i didn’t get the memory download ..

anyway, another thing, the song? THE SONG !! i remembered it instantly (maybe cuz in this reality i actually woke up fully conscious) it was WONDERWALL BY OASIS

safe to say it has been on repeat all day

(specifically the cover by zella day bcs apparently i already had it downloaded?? i remember being obsessed w this cover back in 2019 and now it means smth completely different to me, smth more personal)

idk what to make of this shift, i wasn’t even intending to shift to this dr, i was planning on going to my waiting room but i guess my subconscious was thinking abt barry (probably bcs of all the edits and working on my arrowverse fic)

i can still hear his voice and it’s such a soothing memory :(

idk why i feel such a void in me when logically, i knew i succeeded in accomplishing my goal.. but i’m gonna try and use this as a form of motivation for how much power our subconscious has on us, bcs i may have been intending to shift to my wr, but i genuinely needed this shift to my arrowverse dr

it was helpful in a way i can’t quite put into words, but to try : it rejuvenated me

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My drama club was just playing this song yesterday, this is some kind of sign

shifting songs day 67 !

all shifting songs

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pink pony club ⭒ chappell roan

“i know you wanted me to stay, but i can’t ignore the crazy visions of me in L.A., and i heard that there’s a special place where boys and girls can all be queens every single day”

“i’m having wicked dreams of leaving Tennessee, hear Santa Monica, i swear it’s calling me”

“i’m just having fun on the stage in my heels, it’s where i belong”

“every night’s another reason why i left it all, i thank my wicked dreams, a year from Tennessee, oh, Santa Monica, you’ve been too good to me”

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do you have any advice for someone who has been setting intention (using subs as well) to wake up in dr and still waking up here? i know by saying that i am technically going against what i should be doing but i struggle with mental health so i assume that it won't affect my shifting journey.

HI ML, okay so, first of all, "negative thoughts and mental struggles" cannot impacts your journey unless it's the thought of "I'm never going to shift/ I can never enter my Dr"

You sound like you already placed a metaphor that whenever you do that, you'll wake up in your CR, because going to sleep with only the hope of "I wish/ I hope I would wake up" will get you a 0.01 chance of actually waking up there, why? It's not backed up by genuine belief of laying back and letting it work.

If you wish for an apple to appear in front of you on the desk, and nothing happens? It's your assumptions that is only backed up by hope and nothing else, you have to back it up by simply saying.

"so there is an apple, and it's there, why worry? Why do I care? It's literally just an apple."

Same thing with realities, I know, I know we all want to go home so bad and be there for once, but my love you need to understand that your mindset needs a shift, needs one click of realization that you can most definitely just sleep and wake up there.

Why'd you think people on their success stories say "I just set the intention and i woke up there!"

Sounds weird? Not at all, they didn't back it up with hope, they backed it up by belief and knowledge that yes they'll wake up there.

Almost like the night before you sleep your mother will tell you she'll wake you up for a dentist appointment, so obviously you go to sleep with that knowledge, and when you wake up? You already know you have a dentist appointment.

GOOD LUCK

Had a dream that I drew this dragon and felt disappointed when I woke up that it wasn't real so I drew it all over again.

I better shift before I have to leave for college in this reality, I'm not ready for adult life at all lol

The second you decide (affirm) you have something it is done. The 3D is not separate from you, it’s your reflection. You have it immediately whether you see instant evidence of it or not. That is why you got to persist in that assumption because it’s done the second you decide, and if you contradict yourself then you’re going back and forth.

Let doubts or any other thoughts not aligned with your new story pass or flip them. The point is to not get lost or entertain those thoughts because then you are giving them your power/ validation. Just let them pass in the background because that’s all they are background noice.

things i realised after shifting

— There was no “oh my god i shifted” moment. it all felt very natural to me. You’ve existed in your dr since forever, your ‘cr’ mind doesn’t take over when you shift, hence why it’s so natural when you shift.

— There’s no right way to shift. I’ve shifted in different ways (sleep paralysis, lucid dreaming, just simply thinking about being there etc). You can shift in any way you like. my last shift i simply went to bed and it happened! Don’t get caught up with worrying if you’re doing the right thing and go with the flow.

— You most likely shift by allowing yourself to do it and not forcing it. That’s why people are more likely to shift on accident and not when they’re forcing it because there’s no pressure. You have either shifted or not. Decide you have and trust yourself.

— It’s the easiest thing in the world because you do it all the time. When you shift back it’s like “wait it’s that easy?”. Yes, you don’t need to affirm 500 times, visualise, meditate. It’s simply just deciding you are there and trusting yourself.

If youse have any questions please let me know <3