Hey LGBTQ+ Fam. Thanks For Being Here. All Of You. Today Is Transgender Visibility Day, So I Just Wanted

Hey LGBTQ+ fam. Thanks for being here. All of you. Today is Transgender Visibility Day, so I just wanted post something about myself. I'm not really one for showcasing but seeing everyone else out there and hearing your stories and getting to some of you has been liberating and encouraging.

I maintain a fleet of medical helicopters in California. Particularly, I pay special attention to the helicopter for UCSF children's hospital. I've been working on these machines for 10yrs. I'm a lead mechanic, I'm respected here, and I get paid well for my skills.

I own a home; a fixer upper and I love the endless project list.

I'm the mother of an autistic child. He's growing up so quickly.

I fix, tune, and ride motorcycles. They make me feel so free and light!

Allergy season is gamer season.

I have too many hobbies. I'm never bored.

I'm 40yo. I wasn't able to start exploring my gender identity until I was 32. I started HRT at 37. And I'll continue transitioning at my own pace. I'm 75% fem, 15% masc, and 10% who gives a crap! I know who and what I am. I like who and what I am. I know who and what I want to be in the future and I'm working towards that.

Hey LGBTQ+ Fam. Thanks For Being Here. All Of You. Today Is Transgender Visibility Day, So I Just Wanted
Hey LGBTQ+ Fam. Thanks For Being Here. All Of You. Today Is Transgender Visibility Day, So I Just Wanted

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Reyla's Metaphor

Imagine, if you will, that each of us lives inside our own house. Each of our houses are different. Some are small some are big. Some are plain and simple, while others are complicated and eclectic. Some are low maintenance or easy to fix. Some are constantly broken or need repairs often. While growing up in our houses we've seen them grow and change with us. We decorated them, replaced or re-arranged the furniture, painted, remodeled, added an extension, removed and extension, etc. Some of us are comfortable in our homes, and some of us aren't. Most of us like our homes but would change some things if we could.

For the most part, I didn't hate my house. It did what a house should do, and it did it reliably. I even had a lot of fun in it. But then one day, I found a door in my house that I hadn't ever noticed before. It had a window. When I looked through it, I saw that my home had a backyard. I opened the door and stared out in disbelief.

"Had this been here the whole time? I've been living in this house for 31 years and I'm only just now seeing this?!?"

I was cautious at first and it wasn't a good time to explore my new-found space, so I closed the door and went about my normal indoor business. Over the next several months and years I revisited this door and began to explore the backyard. It was bigger than the house. It amazed me with all sorts of gardenia and outdoor living space. And the more I explored, the less I wanted to go back inside the house. In the backyard I came alive. There, I could feel things I never felt before, and more vividly. The air was fresh and I could breath deeply and more easily. The sky dazzled magically out there.

Then one day, I discovered a gate.

"Another mysterious door? A second backyard perhaps?"

Delighted at the prospects of having even more space to explore, I let my curiosity put my hand on the latch. I was not prepared for what I opened into. For on the other side of that gate, was a vast and endless countryside. Mountains, hills, canyons, valleys, lakes, rivers, maybe someday I'll even find oceans!

The more I travel this countryside, the more I learn about myself. Having found and opened that gate changed everything. And now I want my house to emulate the beauty and grandeur of this countryside. This is where my very soul resides.

This is what it's like to realize that there is more to your soul and your identity than your body's genome. And it is certainly more magnanimous than 2 or 3 mortal chromosomal proteins can embody. Having found a greater version of myself, my true self which I'm still exploring, I want my house to be a better representation of who I am. Something much more genuine. I've redecorated and I'm remodeling. I'm rediscovering designs that I thought weren't for me because they were too 'Fem' or whatever.

Thinking back on it, I had looked out that window before on several occasions throughout my life. I just never realized it was actually a doorway.

I know some people don't like the way I'm decorating my house, even to the point they think it shouldn't be permitted in public (or even in private for some extremists). And there are people who think I should be locked inside the old version of my house never to see the mountains or stars again. But you can't undiscover yourself anymore than you can uncrack an egg. I can never go back, and I will stand up for everyone else who wishes to enter their own backyards.

Some people discover their backyard very early in life. Some people see the door, get scared, and never look at it again. For Cis people, their backyard is already congruent with their house. Well, mostly congruent anyway.


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