TW! SELF HARM, DEPRESSION, BULLYING

TW! SELF HARM, DEPRESSION, BULLYING

So, I have to write that. Y'all know Wattpad, right? And maybe yall know these books 'Types of people I hate'. And then there are a few types of people. So, I read one of these and I wanna punch the person who wrote that in the face. Really. Please hear me out.

1. That one chapter was like 'People who make a club against bullying online'. Okay, some people like it and find it helpful, you don't like it. Okay. But then that person wrote something like 'If someone bullys you, they have a reason. Just like they bully you because they don't like your hairstyle. And then you go home, say to your mom that you want a new hairstyle and you get it. Then you go to school and they don't bully you'. Okay, dude. First of all, No bully don't have a reason to bully you. And to bully someone for a new hairstyle isn't a reason. Second of all, why do you have to get a new hairstyle? It's your hair, why would you only get a new one bc of these idiots? And they won't stop bully you maybe? No. Just no.

2. Another chapter, called 'People who only cut the self because they ""just"" themself' Then that dude wrote 'There I think, do you really have nothing to do? I mean, there are people (not me *cough cough*) who have ten times more worse problems and don't cut them. Who cuts themself is just a coward and too scared to murder themself. So. (I'm a little bit sociopath now...) Sorry to the people who cut themself. But. Think about it. What is false with your life? Think about it' After I read that, I really wanted to punch that person. Really. Like, just because they ""just"" (why the fuck would you write it like that dude?) they hate them, their problems aren't valid? Okay, you have it worser, but every problem is valid. Every. Problem. If you cut yourself, you need help. And not because youre weird, but because you have a problem or problems. If anyone who reads that has a problem, may it be small, my dms are open. You are valid. And the sentence with the coward and too scared to murder themself... Dude, they are not a coward and too scared. They are fucking strong to life on earth with fucking people like you. I'm so angry now.

3. It's worse, but definitely not so worse like 2 and 1. It was a long text so I won't write it all, but basically that person wrote a chapter called 'Bitches'. Yeah, I also don't like bitches who think they are better than everyone and are Karen's. But. The examples that dude wrote are.... Yeah... 'They have Instagram but not Wattpad', 'They have beautiful eyes', 'washing every day their hair', 'Are scared of balls', 'They are perfect', 'Wear make-up', 'They don't read books'. Buddy, no. Just no. If they don't like reading (I personally love reading, but I know enough people who just don't like it), why would they have Wattpad? If someone has beautiful eyes they're also not a bitch, but yeah. I wash my hair every day because I simply forget to don't wash them, and I don't really see a problem to wash yourself. Wear make up.... Guess what, your favourite movie character also wears make up in the movie, and half of your favourite female actors (and male actors) also. I understand what the person wants to say, that some people are bitchig and just act better then everyone. But the examples are... Kinda stupid. How I said before, this isn't as bad as 1 or 2, which are completely dumb chapters.

But, the person has also good chapters in that book. The person spoke about how homophobic people and racists are assholes, which is good. These chapters are problematic and I really wanna hear your opinion about it. I didn't read the whole book, but maybe I'll do it later.

I wanna say, that you are important. Your problems are valid. A bully is stupid and they often don't have a reason to bully you. And if, you are enough and shouldn't change for these idiots. You are beautiful. Wear make up, a boy, a girl, a Non-binary, every humans looks with and without make up beautiful. Read books if you want, don't if you don't. You are enough. You are loved. Don't forget it. Please. Even if some idiots like that person above says something different. I love you all.

End note: The book was German and my English is not the best, so some things are roughly translated. Sorry for that.