Someone Who Is So In Control That They Don’t Have To Be Big And Loud To Asset Their Control And Dominance.

it’s so so cute and like gah it makes me melt every single time <3

Ok but when you’re talking like normal and then Daddy says something sweet and you just melt and your Little slips out and Daddy goes “Ah, there she is. There’s my little one”

🥺🥺🥺

I die. It’s the sweetest thing ever.

now this is gorgeous. wow wow wow, I could only wish, you know? what a lucky girl <3

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very important info!!! please take this kind of thing seriously please!!

Aftercare. 💙✨

I know most people know what subdrop is, but for the few who don’t I’ll explain.

Subdrop is what happens to your body after you’ve drained your brain of all the hormones and chemicals that it released during a scene or session.

Meaning, after you‘ve come down from your high, you start to feel mentally and emotionally attacked from what just happened. You start to think all these bad things about yourself and how someone normal would not find what just occurred pleasurable in anyways.

That’s why aftercare is important. Showering your sub in compliments,food, cuddle sessions. Just stuff that will make them feel like you care and that you don’t judge them for enjoying what they like.

Another thing, I’m positive that most people don’t know is what topdrop is. It’s the same as subdrop but it affects doms/dommes.

I know some people will be like- “Doms/dommes don’t go through that, nothing like that bothers them.” That’s where you’re wrong.

Remember we’re all human so no one is exempt from feeling used or feeling disgusted with their actions even though they shouldn’t be.

Not many know this but being a dom/domme is exhausting. A good top plans physical punishments or sexual scenes down to the T so their is no room for accidents and after all that planning and executing said plan they sometimes feel bad for doing what they did or even feel used in a sense.

That’s why aftercare is important for both parties. Show them that you care and that you appreciate what they did. Reassure them that they didn’t hurt you in a bad way and that they only did what they did to help you grow. ASK👏 THEM👏 IF👏 THEY’RE👏 OKAY👏!! Especially right after a session.

That can be the difference between showing that you care or not.

AFTERCARE IS A NECESSITY FOR BOTH PARTICIPANTS!!👏💙✨

absolutely!! it’s completely and totally embarrasing to admit how long I’ve actually day dreamed about this exact scenario. >~<

i just want someone to take advantage of how young and naive i am. just slowly start to grope me and tell me that it's normal to let someone touch me like this whenever they want to. then build up to taking off my clothes and having me be naked around you because this is normal and everyone does this. it's normal to let strangers touch me like this and take my clothes off. 🥺👉👈

consent is the key to fun! literally if you don’t believe in this then please get off my blog 😘

😍 what a cute text to receive!

happy friends make me happy :)

The person I reblogged this from deserves to be happy

I tried to scroll past this. I really did

consent is literally essential. without consent, no fun can be had. communication is key and if you can’t understand that then you should not be having this kind of fun.

Shit, are people really taking “men get pegged” as a serious measure of whether a guy is a Good Boyfriend or not?

I assure you earnestly. If your girlfriend tries to pressure you into doing that or insist that you must be afraid of being ~emasculated~ if you don’t want to, it is best to Throw The Whole Woman Away.

In general, like, what sexual acts you are or are not personally comfortable with has exactly fuck all to do with how feminist or progressive you are or whatever. Ffs.

It is a delightful meme but absolutely not an excuse to forget that men, also, get to make the rules about their bodies! and that is final!

oh. I like this a very very lot.

So everyone talks about praise kink right? But I think there's something to be said for a reassurance kink.

"That's it, you're doing it right, darling, don't worry."

Any guidance through even the simplest of tasks.

"I'm here, I'm not going anywhere."

Feeling weight, like a hand resting on a shoulder or thigh.

Making eye contact and getting a smile and nod back that says, you're doing great, keep going.

Being hushed or swayed while receiving back rubs.

Being fully surrounded by their body while they say, "it's okay now, I'm here, you're safe."

You’re reading this!! That’s so very exciting!!

Thank you so so much for visiting my blog! It’s February 22nd, 2021 when I make this blog so I sincerely hope we have fun! I love messages so please message me if you want and have lots of fun! 💖

Hearts! Chloe 🧸