I Know We’ve Talked About This Before….but The Dom Butch Shutting Up The Bratty Bossy Femme Is Something

You have a complex relationship with your body and need to keep some/all of your clothes on during sex?

That's okay, what you're wearing looks good on you.

You need to take a lot of breaks doing anything intimate because you're easily overwhelmed?

I understand, I'm just happy to be here with you.

You're on medication that impacts your libido/makes reaching orgasm really difficult?

No pressure, tell me what feels good for you, and if you get frustrated we can do something else together.

Sex isn't going to look the same for everybody and that's fine, that's normal.

Sometimes you don't orgasm, sometimes you need to stop because your mood changes out of nowhere, sometimes you get really self conscious and need accommodations to take your mind off of it.

People are too complex for everybody to go about it the same, just keep doing what feels best for you, regardless of how different it may seem from other people's experiences.

2025: the year of the lesbian boyfriend

stop conforming to cis pressures and come lez out with the cross dressers

I hope you guys like butches with scars, and butches with with thick thighs, and butches who are going grey, and butches with acne, and butches with stubble, and b—

💜❤️💛 the finished floral lesbian pinup series. celebrating the lesbian community and our diverse and wonderful ethnicities, body types, and identities 💗

The utterly wild experience of being a stone butch who uses he/him pronouns and purposefully passes as a man in the workplace and likes being a lesbian boyfriend who also is on estrogen and antiandrogens and enjoys having a high voice. Makes a lot of posts from people who share 1/2 of that experience very unrelatable for me, it's funny.

so excited to start t and have people go “i guess i’m not that woke…” when i say im a lesbian too

subtle intimacy is so soft. knowing someone’s routine and slowly becoming a part of it. memorising favourite teas and soups and drink orders. good morning and good night texts and messy paragraphs of love written half asleep. nicknames only you know. just small things that say “look how dear you are to me.”

D. H. Lawrence, from The Complete Novels and Writings of D. H. Lawrence

All I want is to take care of her.

To be able to come over anytime she just needs someone there. To be able to hold her, and make her feel safe. To offer comfort and to let her know she’s so incredibly special.

I want to make her comfort food and get her favourite drink. I want to pack her bag in the evening so she can stay in bed a few minutes longer in the morning. I want to give her my shirt or hoodie to wear, so she knows I’m always with her. I want to give her comfort with the smallest gestures, a hug just because, holding her hand when she’s next to me.

I want her to know she’s not alone, and that I would do absolutely anything for her. I want to make the bad days a little easier, and the good days even better <3