Chimeraaas - Lark

I hate it when trans people on TikTok pull out that stages of genocide thing and say oh this is happening to us currently right now! As if being called sir by a waiter and JK Rowling tweeting stuff and being told that children shouldn’t have access to incredibly dangerous and life changing medical care is in anyway the same thing as an actual genocide.

These people need to read up on history and recognise that people not wanting to see a dick in a woman’s locker room is a fucking minuscule problem to have in contrast to what persecuted groups have experienced now and throughout history.

I love how people call JKR a "billionaire" acting like she's literally a demon who enslaved their family. As if she didn't get rich by just… making a good product that sells. She receives the same hatred that a man who forces his warehouse workers to piss in bottles and ignore heart attacks does. She might just be the only rich person in our time who earned her wealth. If that's not misogyny idk what is.

I notice a lot of TIFs complaining of being lumped in with men, of not wanting to be classed an oppressor

It's like yeah... you're being oppressed because of your sex. And yeah you feel outraged at being lumped in with men because being female you're not like men. And your community treats you terribly because of your sex.

Some seem close to a glimmer of hope...

"men and women are equally as vicious and hateful to one another because women leave mean comments about men they find ugly" men rape and enslave and murder and violate and control women and have done so forever but yeah women saying a guy has a fugly hairline on a ten second video is equivalent to femicide. and enslavement. do you hear yourself. should I call for help

if you insist on pretending that people are oppressed for their "sex", then don't complain when you're rightfully called transphobic

does anyone else remember when women weren’t allowed to vote or is that just me?

noo nope. nope. transwimmin can’t be radfems full stop i can’t deal with TIRFS

Gender non conforming kids do not need fixed. Not by conservatives telling them they should fit the gender role society attached to their sex. And not by liberals telling them they need to go on puberty blockers so they can transition to the other gender/sex. Literally just leave them alone

Sometimes it's really really concerning how much anti-psychiatry and anti-recovery rhetoric exists-- and for once I'm not just talking about endos, but even within the OSDDID internetsphere, especially in actively pro self dx circles. It's not to say that you can't or shouldn't work on things away from a healthcare team, but with chronic and intensely debilitating disorders it is rare, if not impossible to fully be "fine" without help.

Like. If you're experiencing dissociative amnesia or memory/identity issues in general (even when caused by things as innocuously treated online like ADHD if it's at a debilitating level), you NEED someone who isn't affected by those things in order to have a sense of grounding and heal. And it's vital for that to be someone who has a baseline understanding of how dissociative disorders work.

My caseworker calls are sometimes the only thing giving me any sense of the passage of time, and she remembers things during calls that I completely forget or dissociate through. Not even my partner can consistently provide this because of her time blindness, vs the professional who reaches out, doesn't have a disorder affecting her memory, and takes notes during our calls.

My therapy visits, as infrequent as they've been lately, are some of the only reason why we've made progress toward one of our alters no longer making contact with our abusers when she fronts, and that fight isn't over yet. My partner can't stop her from doing it-- she'll wait until they're asleep. They also don't have the resources or bandwidth to address with her why doing this is bad, and if they intervene incorrectly it increases the chance that one day I wake up in another state.

I get from firsthand experience that healthcare, especially in the US, is notoriously inaccessible, and in some places the facilities available are full of inexperienced, incompassionate tools who don't care about their patients. But instead of using that as an excuse to stop trying, instead of pushing others into not seeking care and not trusting doctors, that needs to get channeled into finding and providing resources.

Many states have government funded healthcare available for those below the poverty line. Many facilities offer payment scaling plans even without insurance. A fair amount of insurance companies that "don't cover this" will make exceptions if you go through other channels and get professional referrals. It's not easy, it's not always free, and it's not fast. For those underage, it may be awhile before you can legally access it.

But for the love of all that is sacred on this burning planet, do NOT discourage trauma survivors from trying to get psychiatric help over the potential of a bad experience or a bad doctor. You are not helping people heal and learn to love themselves. You are creating paranoia and enforcing a regressive mentality that can prevent someone from reaching out before its too late.

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