Omgg @sarakipin 🥺👉👈

Teach boys about periods

My mother also talked about periods to my brothers.

When I first got mine I had terrible cramps. Crippling cramps. I once was camping with my family and a few of my big brother’s friends when my period came. My cramps were so bad that my mom gave me a full pain killer ( I was 13 and before that she only gave me pills cut in half).

I literally laid down on my parents’ air mattress and cried in pain for an hour before the pill kicked in.

My brothers friend came in to the big tent and I was just curled up and sobbing. Now, I was quite the tomboy and was known to rough house with my brothers and their friends and made sure I wasnt seen as just “a little girl.” So my brother’s friend was confused to see me openly weeping in the fetal position (seriously, these were the worst cramps I have had in my life. My vision went white). He asked what was wrong with me.

My big brother stood up immediately and suggested a nice long hike. During this hike I am sure he had a pretty awkward conversation with his friend explaining menstrual cramps, because when they got back the pain pill had (mostly) kicked in and I was sitting up at a table when my brother’s friend sheepishly asked me if I was feeling better. I said I was better, and he said good.

When we made s'mores that night my brother and his friend kept me well supplied with chocolate.

Making sure sons know as much about periods and menstruation as daughters makes them better brothers, better sons better fathers, and better men. A man that understands a period will not lightly accuse a woman of “being on her period” if the woman is in an argument.

Raise better sons Teach them about normal bodily functions.

Literally anyone: How long are you going to stare at Elizabeth?

Mr. Darcy: Yes

Before you get mad at your partner for not doing what you expect them to do, Stop and ask yourself “have I ever communicated to them that I have this expectation?” If you have not, it’s unfair to expect them to read your mind.

So many arguments are saved by just opening your mouth and saying “hey hun, in the future can you….” Whether its articulating how you like to be loved, supported, or communicated with, you have to open your mouth. Your soul mate (IMO) isn’t the person that just always knows what you need when you need it without you telling them. Your soul mate is the person who hears your needs and thinks “I have no problem doing that because I love this person with my whole heart”

So check your attitude and open your mouth. Closed mouths don’t get fed.

Whenever there is some scandal and the person apologizes there are always a significant number of people wanting to continue the callout, for whom the apology is never sufficient. When pressed on it, they'll advert to some absurdly specific element of something covered in the general apology. No apology is sufficient. Of course, this is because they're not really interested in ameliorating anything ever. They're interested in being outraged and getting points for cheap dunks. This is no way to live as a social creature among other social creatures. Everyone wrongs other people and makes mistakes, and it is dangerous and deeply destructive when a significant group of people decides that wrongs can never be forgiven.

they catch you playing bts island ♡

a/n. i’m obsessed with this game just like my mom is with candy crush 😀👍

┆彡 NAMJOON [ 남준 ]

he finds it beyond heart-warming that you were playing the game AND hiding that fact from him

but obviously he knew because you had your notifs on (lol!) and he could see them popping out once or twice

one day while he was reading a book and you were playing the game while sitting on a couch, you let out a deep sigh since you couldn’t beat a certain level

he knows that feeling too well…

"want me to help?" joon asked casually, causing you to freeze in your tracks

and when you hand him the phone with a pout he can’t help but kiss the top of your head <3

since then except to be spammed by him. hearts, gifts… everything

sometimes when you don’t answer his texts he messages you through the game lmao >.<

┆彡 SEOKJIN [ 석진 ]

he kinda doesn’t care tbh 😭😭

like he’d be happy you play it and enjoy it

and he absolutely loves to see how you turn off your phone with rage when you can’t pass certain level

but also once you asked him to help you choose a cosmetic for his chibi self

and since then he occasionally asks you if he can change the members’ outfits

also will bully you to always choose his answers…

┆彡 HOSEOK [ 호석 ]

once he was doing something in the studio and you were waiting for him, playing the game

and you didn’t even notice when he said he’s finished and walked up to you, noticing the fame

well, not for too long because hobi just bursted out laughing

won’t stop teasing you about it; he finds it very cute :3

sometimes he texts you "how’s mini hobi doin’" and you have to send him a screenshot from the game

also when you bought the "more" pack he was so happy, eyes sparkling with joy and he pepper-kissed your face whilst repeating how adorable you are

┆彡 YOONGI [ 윤기 ]

he found out when he was just closing his music programs in his studio and you happened to be playing the game with sound on. so he was like "wait a damn second where is this music coming from??"

honestly he's a bit surprised that you are actually playing the game (and actually have some progress) but obv his first question is

"how do you like the music i made?"

pls tell him its amazing, he'll go :]

when you giggle at his in-game character (because he's always sleeping) he'll just roll his eyes

but the thing is that once he was peeking through your shoulder while you were playing and he found it really relaxing

so yup, now whenever you play it you have yoongi looking at your screen (and teasing the shit out of you when you fail...)

┆彡 JIMIN [ 지민 ]

lets out a dramatic gasp because he just caught you choosing someone else’s answer!!!

from time to time will check up on you and your game

if you’re moving the members around the island, he’ll make some sounds or imitate their voices

helps you choose decorations – he’s very good at it (thanks to his taste) and your island looks heavenly

will giggle at you if you fail your level tho

┆彡 TAEHYUNG [ 태형 ]

he kinda doesn’t care… as long as the game isn’t taking too much of your attention smh

sometimes will rest his chin on your shoulder and watch you, trying to help

(but often swipes before thinking and it’s not helping at all…)

makes you dress the members (eg banana namjoon is one of his favourites)

same as yoongi - enjoys watching you play it

but later on he got bored and downloaded the game as well :]

┆彡 JUNGKOOK [ 정국 ]

looks at you in disbelief once he found out.

like you. his partner. are playing the game. AND HE DIDN’T KNOW??

spoils you so much i swear – popularity presents, hearts you name it

also when you’re not looking he snatches your phone and buys some packs or costumes as well >:o

but he’s very competitive about the levels… will laugh at you when he’s got more levels than you. but once you pass him, he’ll pout dramatically :T

sometimes you text each other in the game because you’re too lazy to switch to sms…

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15.02.22

the first part of the day was so productive but it became a cheat day soon oops-

did my french notes

wrote out three applications in non-cursive

actually went and finished some official work at school

shoutout to @recedinghorizons who inspired me to do this post !

🎶 side to side by ariana grande

she’s in her “just tryna graduate” era bro leave that woman alone

i love when i “make a mental note” of something. it’s gone within 20 seconds