I’ve been seeing notes games everywhere and I wanna play too!!
so, for every 5 notes this gets, that’s one day that I’m going to only go by she/her and my birthname with friends! Right now, half of them think I’m genderfluid so this will force me to come out fully as a girl 🫶
as a bonus challenge:
- if I get 100 notes, I’ll keep my face and chest shaved for a month (and will add on a month for every 100 past that)
- if I get 200 notes, I’ll make an email with my birthname and start using it for business related things instead of the one I currently use (which has my chosen name)
- if I get 300 notes, I’ll grow my hair out to be tomboy sidetails (Google it; very cute and still short but I’ve never seen a boy w that haircut)
- if I get 400 notes, I’ll ask my next therapist to only use she/her and my birthname
- if I get 500 notes (before October), I’ll talk to my doctor about starting the process of going off of testosterone at my next appointment!
I’ll be starting September 1st just to have a backlog but this game doesn’t have a time limit so do your worst!
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As both a poly and bi individual; The above jokes mentioned, are fucking sick. They aren't funny, and they are traumatic to anyone who had a bad childhood especially about sexuality.
your outwardly violent attitude towards any and all romantic & sexual arrangements that don't mirror your good wholesome vanilla monogamous ideal is actually not made quirky and lovable by your queer identity. people who do the "if my partner even asked about polyamory i would buy a gun" schtick on here are pretty functionally identical to straight people who joke about murdering their partners if they came out as bi
Friendly reminder that allowing underage littles/pets/daddies/mommies/etc your blog if you post NSFW or kink material can get you up to 10 years in prison and can get you on the sex offenders registry for the rest of your life.
It’s called “corruption of a minor” and “pandering obscenities to a minor” and it’s a third degree felony in the US.
Bit of advice to anyone who is new to kink or even just sex: assume "no", "stop", "too much", "wait" etc are safewords unless you specifically negotiate otherwise.
You can play with "no no it's too much stop" type stuff being banter or dirty talk or whatever, but you shouldn't assume they are. Yes even if you set a safeword and you or the other person isn't using it.
Also: getting quiet or not very responsive is a reason to check in. Someone not being able to give you a clear "yes I'm having fun let's keep going" or seeming a bit off is a reason to stop when you do check in, especially when they're a new partner.. You can't just assume things are fine bc they haven't said the safeword.
Safewords should be extra measures to ensure ongoing consent, not the only measure.
Felt that it’s important to share videos like this too.
reblog to give the person you reblogged this from a little pumpkin 🧡