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Truly Submissive?

Are you truly submissive, or are you just kinky? That’s the question you men should ask yourselves. You women should ask yourselves if you are truly in an FLR or are you just a dominant for his kink…

Many men, women too, mistake leadership in an FLR for dominance in kink. If you are doing kinky things for your partner because that’s what he wants, but you are not getting what you want from the relationship, then you are just playing dominant to his kink. If he were truly submissive, then he would be fulfilling all your hopes and dreams, desires, and kinks, without expecting anything in return. That much is fact…

An FLR is not a sexual relationship. It is a lead and follow relationship. That is, as the leader of the relationship, you, as a woman, should be getting anything and everything you want. Only then, should you feel the need to reward your submissive with sexual favors that he wants, whether they be kinky or not.

Men, if you are not willing to give up your right to make decisions, to choose what you do and don’t do, on a daily basis, to turn over total control of your families fives to your wife, then you are not submissive at all. Being sexually submissive is not the same as being submissive to your partner in all things.

Think carefully about what I am saying here. If you, as a man, want to be teased for hours on end, then denied an orgasm for months at a time, then you must be willing to do anything to get that. Yes, I said “ANYTHING!” A true submissive will be rewarded for serving unselfishly. That means, if you expect no reward for your service to your partner and you serve her without complaint, then you deserve to be rewarded. That reward may, or may not, be sexual in nature, but it will be fulfilling…

So serve your wife (Mistress) without seeking reward, you shall be rewarded. It may sound contradictory, but it isn’t when you think about it. So ask yourself, “Am I being truly submissive, or am I being selfish?” The answer may surprise you. And you may not like it. Only you can change the reason for your service…

From Mistress Ivey’s blog “Becoming a Mistress”

Day 5 of the spitroasting week

The move out to the country was my idea. Little did i know how it would end up

#FLR #cuckLife

Panties and chastity has done wonders for me

The keys are just a distraction. Good boy or not (which i am mostly) i know that once out of chastity bad things happen. IT is like being out after midnight. Nothing good ever comes of it just like nothing good ever comes from being unlocked...except perhaps a good beating.

Or not??

yes please.

Extract from a book by kitty Williams called strict male chastity.

Georgina:-I agreed to put my husband in chastity because he asked me to. I was rather ambivalent about the idea at first. It wasn’t that I didn’t understand what he wanted, but rather that I didn’t see it as particularly exciting from my point of view. I rather enjoyed finding an erect penis in my hand during foreplay. It has always been one of those moments in life that has never failed to surprise and delight me, even now. We have a kiss and a cuddle in bed and hey presto, look what has happened to my man. So the fact that he would be locked away down there seemed to me to be a bit of a waste. How wrong I was. The more I thought about the idea of controlling his sex-life, and I mean by that, having complete control over such a huge part of his life, the more aroused I became. It started off as just one week, a week in which both of us went through almost every emotion possible. The novelty factor, the excitement, and gradually what it actually meant on a practical level. Tom started off really keen, which I guess I should have expected, then went through a period of doubt fuelled mainly by frustration, and then gradually acceptance. He also became very attentive, and less assertive. I wouldn’t say he was servile, but he was certainly much more willing to do what I asked him to do. But the over-riding thrill for me was the power exchange, which was just so hot. We got to three months and I simply told him that I had decided to extend his time by a further three months. Just like that, a simple sentence, but it felt wonderful having total control over him in that way. At six months I extended it to a year, and also insisted he got a piercing, which he did willingly. I began to obsess about making it permanent, and that was reinforced in my mind by the increasing pleasure I was getting from the array of toys that I had amassed to replace my husband’s penis, each of which was far more satisfying, especially when I made Tom use them on me. He could see that a dildo in his hands or even strapped on to him was pleasuring me much more than he ever could, and I just loved how distressing that was for him. The more inadequate and redundant he felt, the more turned on I became? We have now gone for thirty-two months and I can honestly say I have never felt happier or more fulfilled. I am pretty sure that Tom will never be released for the purpose of ejaculation again, and I think we both know that now. Of course Tom could at any point just withdraw his consent, and sometimes when it is very difficult for him I wonder if he will, but so far that hasn’t happened. When he is not screaming with frustration he tells me that he loves the sweet torture of chastity, as he puts it. Sweet thing.“

goals

Beneath me

Beneath my soles

Beneath my heels

Where I can use you

Where I can hurt you

Where I can lift you

Beneath me - where you belong

Beneath me - where I love you best

Beneath me - where there’s no place you’d rather be