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Chastity Control...

Many posters on the internet seem to have absolutely no idea about the theory of male chastity and masturbation control, and how wonderfully it can enhance erotic pleasure for both husband and wife.

So many of the comments seem to be based on pain and punishment, or on the idea that masturbation is bad (it isn’t). All of that misses the point…

First of all, if a man is kept in chastity for long periods without any hope of release, chastity will only train him to mentally block out his feelings of desire. And in any event, his body will release semen as needed by way of wet dreams. Where is the fun in that for me as a woman?

I have found that the best way for a woman to use chastity control over her man is to keep him guessing when he will be out next. That way, he will always expect that he could be unlocked at any time, or that he may be kept locked for many days…

But he must never know!

I am always very careful not to let him detect any sort of pattern in my strategy. I might let him out a second time the same day, or I might unlock him only after several days.

When I am in the mood for sex, I can let him out knowing that he will be in the grip of uncontrolled desire for me, just like it was before we were married. When I am not in the mood for sex, I will let him out when I decide he needs to relieve himself, so that he cannot learn to build resistance to my feminine power…

I just never let on when that will be. While he is locked, I use subtle teasing techniques to build his desire to a fever pitch, already knowing when I will let him out, but leaving him helplessly clueless about it. This is also about keeping my man as attentive and devoted to me as he was when he first proposed on his knees to me.

As I observe his reactions, that only helps to build my own desires as well, but I am in control. Then, when I am ready for some real passion, I unlock him and the sex is as good as the wedding night for both of us. Every time.

My husband fully understands how the best sex results from being denied for a short period while I create his desire, just like a great meal is best enjoyed on an empty stomach, rather than after snacking on cookies and sweets all afternoon and ruining the appetite.

The only problem is that this can only be accomplished by my control of his chastity, because he cannot resist the urge to masturbate at the first sign of arousal instead of waiting while it builds. After experiencing sex My way, he has learned to willingly submit, knowing that the big payoff will come later…

Incidentally, I might add that I have absolutely no problem with what chastity does to his attitude toward me.

He has become very obedient and devoted to me. There is no more important key to a successful and lasting marriage. As for punishment, on the rare occasions that my husband needs to be punished, I never use chastity for that purpose. Instead, I simply wait until it is time to unlock him, and insist that he submit to a spanking before I unlock, which he readily does. That way, even his punishment brings us closer, rather than further apart. That is much better than not speaking to him or freezing him for a couple of days…

Thanks to Female Supremacy

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Oh my. What a predicament!!

Is there any safe way to get out of hypnotic chastity? I listened to a chastity file a year ago and don't remember the hypnotists name. Now I can only get hard when I'm dozing off or just waking up. The second I am fully awake... BOOM! I become bonerless for the rest of the day.

Mmmm, yes. That’s a familiar situation. 

Once you’re snared by hypnotic chastity, it can be insurmountably difficult to free yourself. That difficulty really depends on your hypnotist. Do you know who she is? (In your case no.) Do you still have contact with her? (Also no.) Do you know what she wants or what her intentions for you are? (Sigh. Nope.) Getting in your hypnotist’s good graces is the best way to earn release.

If, as in your situation, you no longer have access to your hypnotist, it may be quite challenging to break free. Did she implant triggers in your head that make you go soft or that make you unable to touch? Are these triggers things that happen in everyday life so that you are constantly triggered to be chaste? Things such as seeing a pretty woman, hearing a bell ring, trying to touch yourself or even just waking from sleep. Did she set it up so that every time you are hypnotically compelled to be chaste the suggestions are reinforced? Are they getting stronger and stronger? Did she implant the suggestions that you are not able to seek help from or even listen to other hypnotists? Did she wrap all of this up in an amnesia suggestion so that your conscious mind can’t quite remember what she said when you were deep in trance?

If so then, my friend, you might be stuck. The more you try to escape, the deeper her hooks will sink into you. Honestly, the best chance you have is to just embrace chastity as your new reality.

Enjoy!

Sure, I’ll dominate you my sweet husband but you are going to have to prove that it’s worth it for me to run your life. That’s going to involve more cooking, dishes, house projects, massages and other duties as assigned. Our sex life will be different too. You’ll be taking care of my needs and I will repeatedly tease you until you on the edge of an orgasm and then deny you with a devilish smile. Sounds like fun but wait until we do it for a couple of weeks straight. You’ll be climbing the walls and begging for my touch. Of course I don’t want to forget the tormenting too. You’ll be tied up and whipped until you can’t stand it any longer and then I’ll keep going until I am satisfied. You know I can be a bitch when I want to be one. Sound like something you are interested in or should we just keep it a fantasy?

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