I Gave Up On Asking Long Ago. W\We Are Both Happier Now.

i gave up on asking long ago. w\We are both happier now.

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2 years ago

Shall i wait or will You ring me when You are ready to be picked up?

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5 years ago

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8 months ago

#FLR

Women Need to Avoid this Training Mistake in Their Female Led Relationship

Women Need To Avoid This Training Mistake In Their Female Led Relationship

In the world of Female-Led Relationships (FLR), it's easy to come across advice that seems to promise quick ways to establish dominance. Unfortunately, many of these tips are designed to fulfill male fantasies rather than foster genuine power dynamics. One such dangerous recommendation suggests:

"To train your man to be the perfect slave, you need to make sure he is caged and plugged 24/7. He must ask for your permission to go to the washroom and must sit while peeing. He must be pegged at least twice a week. You need to make him wear panties, paint his toenails, and dress like a maid to break his male ego. Never let him cum, and make him eat your pussy and ass. Maintenance spankings are a must to keep him submissive.”

It's vital to reject advice like this. Articles promoting such submissive male training methods are often written by men trying to manipulate innocent women into believing that these are the only methods to train their submissive. They want to manipulate women into thinking that FLR is purely about kinks, fetishes, and controlling every aspect of a man's physical behavior. The implication is that you, as the dominant woman, must become a sexual tyrant, constantly pushing boundaries to "break" your partner’s male ego. No wonder women freak out by the idea of FLR.

While there is no denying that activities like chastity, pegging, or forced feminization can induce submissive feelings in some men, these are not the foundation of a successful FLR.

These methods may result in temporary compliance, but the moment you stop, the submissive behavior will fade.

That’s because relationships built solely on fetishistic elements lack depth, trust, and sustainability.

True submission is not dependent on daily kinks; it's rooted in respect, trust, and emotional surrender.

The True Pillars of a Female-Led Relationship :

1. Emotional Connection

2. Mutual Respect

3. Clear Communication

4. Personal Growth

5. Long-Term Vision

Kinks Should Be a Supplement, Not the Focus

Incorporating consensual kinks into your FLR can indeed add spice and excitement to your dynamic. But when they are the sole focus, the relationship risks becoming superficial and transactional. Your man might temporarily submit because the activities trigger his submissive side, but over time, these actions will feel more like chores than acts of genuine devotion.

It's essential to keep kinks as a supplement to the larger relationship dynamic. Your domination should not be confined to just bedroom or kinky BDSM activities. The core of an FLR should be emotional, psychological, and based on trust and care. When your man submits to you from a place of deep respect and admiration, his submission will be sustainable and heartfelt.

Avoiding the "Horny Bitch" Trap

Many articles and guides depict dominant women in FLR as "horny bitches" who are constantly thinking about how to dominate their man sexually. They suggest that the woman should dress in leather and high heels, shout out orders and should always be ready to whip her slave. This stereotype not only objectifies women but also diminishes the true power of an FLR.

Being in charge doesn't mean constantly enforcing sexual dominance. It means making thoughtful decisions, guiding your relationship, and leading with confidence. You should never feel pressured to adopt a hyper-sexualized role just because a male-oriented fantasy suggests it's the only way to maintain dominance. Real power is quiet, steady, and far more profound than what kink-driven articles would have you believe.

True power should allow you to be totally yourself. A Female Led Relationship should make you more “you”. You should be able to cherish who you truly are because you have a supportive man right by your side

Conclusion

An FLR is about more than controlling your partner’s sexual habits or dressing them up in a way that "breaks their ego." It’s about cultivating an environment where your partner feels safe to submit to your leadership out of genuine love and devotion. Women who embrace their natural power in an FLR should focus on emotional depth, mutual respect, and clear communication rather than succumbing to fetish-based training techniques.

Your relationship can thrive when it’s grounded in trust and understanding, and when kinks are treated as an occasional expression of submission, rather than the central focus of your dynamic.

6 months ago

The gentle progression.

#FLR #cuckLife #sissyThings

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beneathyoualways - a work in progress...(i'm a)
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