Expectations

more like eight years ago but who is counting.

#FLR

as my Wife says, She is still alive and kicking. Being flirty is fun especially with me locked for Her.

Loads of times. There is generally one always in my work bag as well.

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I’m too embarrassed to post my username, but I really want to ask/talk about this. I’ve been reading your blog for a while & feel a safeness here so here it goes. I don’t get wet like most girls. I don’t make a giant mess when I cum, I hardly make any mess at all. I see girls with wet panties and girls creaming on monster dildos & I wonder if it’s abnormal to be in my position. I can’t send my Dom the pictures he wants because it just doesn’t happen for me & I wish it would.

I’m so glad you feel safe here. So here it goes.

You are perfectly normal!!! Go ahead, breathe that sigh of relief. It’s normal to produce puddles of wetness all the time, only certain time of the month, or never really at all. 

Tumblr, or any porn for that matter is a terrible measure of ‘normal’, and it sets horrible expectations. Did you know the average cock size is 5.5 inches, and not the 8-9 seen in porn? (Oh and mostly uncircumcised) That only 1 our of 3 women are able to cum from penetrative sex? We see these things so often it can feel as if that’s how it is for everyone, but that’s not true.

It is perfectly normal to use lubricants for sex. Increasing your fluids may help a bit, but it’s also okay if it doesn’t. And keep in mind that hormonal changes as a woman ages makes things a bit less moist as well. All normal.

This is like the idea that everyone can deepthroat, or should be able to. It’s unrealistic, and I hope that if your Dom has this expectation that you’ll be able to explain to him that this isn’t reality based. Not every woman can cum on command, or deepthroat, or wet their panties at the mere sight of their Dom and it doesn’t make them any less submissive, or sexy.  Try not to let such a natural variance diminish your self worth!

#FLR