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Chastity Control...

Many posters on the internet seem to have absolutely no idea about the theory of male chastity and masturbation control, and how wonderfully it can enhance erotic pleasure for both husband and wife.

So many of the comments seem to be based on pain and punishment, or on the idea that masturbation is bad (it isn’t). All of that misses the point…

First of all, if a man is kept in chastity for long periods without any hope of release, chastity will only train him to mentally block out his feelings of desire. And in any event, his body will release semen as needed by way of wet dreams. Where is the fun in that for me as a woman?

I have found that the best way for a woman to use chastity control over her man is to keep him guessing when he will be out next. That way, he will always expect that he could be unlocked at any time, or that he may be kept locked for many days…

But he must never know!

I am always very careful not to let him detect any sort of pattern in my strategy. I might let him out a second time the same day, or I might unlock him only after several days.

When I am in the mood for sex, I can let him out knowing that he will be in the grip of uncontrolled desire for me, just like it was before we were married. When I am not in the mood for sex, I will let him out when I decide he needs to relieve himself, so that he cannot learn to build resistance to my feminine power…

I just never let on when that will be. While he is locked, I use subtle teasing techniques to build his desire to a fever pitch, already knowing when I will let him out, but leaving him helplessly clueless about it. This is also about keeping my man as attentive and devoted to me as he was when he first proposed on his knees to me.

As I observe his reactions, that only helps to build my own desires as well, but I am in control. Then, when I am ready for some real passion, I unlock him and the sex is as good as the wedding night for both of us. Every time.

My husband fully understands how the best sex results from being denied for a short period while I create his desire, just like a great meal is best enjoyed on an empty stomach, rather than after snacking on cookies and sweets all afternoon and ruining the appetite.

The only problem is that this can only be accomplished by my control of his chastity, because he cannot resist the urge to masturbate at the first sign of arousal instead of waiting while it builds. After experiencing sex My way, he has learned to willingly submit, knowing that the big payoff will come later…

Incidentally, I might add that I have absolutely no problem with what chastity does to his attitude toward me.

He has become very obedient and devoted to me. There is no more important key to a successful and lasting marriage. As for punishment, on the rare occasions that my husband needs to be punished, I never use chastity for that purpose. Instead, I simply wait until it is time to unlock him, and insist that he submit to a spanking before I unlock, which he readily does. That way, even his punishment brings us closer, rather than further apart. That is much better than not speaking to him or freezing him for a couple of days…

Thanks to Female Supremacy

almost there

#FLR

She does allow me to lick once in a while.

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Now, the year of chastity is great and will no doubt cause changes. However, a year unlocked without touching does wonders.

#FLR #chasteLife

I can hardly believe that it has been an entire year since I locked you away in your chastity device. It’s hard to imagine a time when you had complete control over your cock, when it was something that you could just use whenever you pleased. But those days are long gone now, my love. Your chastity belt is your badge of honor - proof of my power over you and the absolute authority that I hold over your body and your desires.

I know that sometimes you complain about being locked up, about wanting to be released and able to touch yourself or me in a way that brings you satisfaction. But the truth is that deep down inside, you know as well as I do how much you love being locked away. You love the feeling of helplessness and submission that it brings out in you.

So here’s to another year of your chastity. To many more anniversaries where we can celebrate this unique bond that we share and all the power that comes with it. You belong to me now, my dear chaste husband. And I will never let you forget it.

#FLR

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