Maintaining A Balanced Level Of Control

Maintaining A Balanced Level Of Control

To feel content, a human pet needs a consistent level of control and love from its owner. I like to use a balance of both mental and physical bondage while he is in service to me.

The more physically free he is, the stricter my rules and protocol will be creating mental bondage, and forcing him to constantly police his own actions to stay out of trouble. I also tend to ration the amount of loving attention I give him while free (quick pecks on the cheek instead of passionate kisses) and he never gets to orgasm or sexually serve me under these conditions.

The more physically controlled he is, the more the rules and protocols relax and I shower him with more loving attention, even babying him at times while helpless. In this way, amazingly, I have conditioned him to love being bound helpless and now he wouldn’t dream of refusing my restraints. He is quite happy being locked up as he knows sexy time (whether he is pleasuring me or I allow him an orgasm) between us only happens while he is helplessly restrained.

No Restraint

For instance, if he is at home unencumbered by any restraints, he is forbidden to leave the yard without my permission. My pet isn’t allowed eye contact with me, to kiss me, or to touch me above the ankle without permission or command to do so.  When I touch him or kiss him, he must remain totally passive. I expect a high level of obedience and punishment is much easier for him to earn. If he isn’t actively doing something for me, I will sometimes randomly give him corner time or force him to remain silent and crawling on all fours. These are a couple of my favorite ways to use mental bondage to control him.

If his chastity device is removed while unrestrained, he isn’t allowed to see me undressed or touch me at all. This is exceedingly rare, as I normally restrain him before the device is unlocked and removed, to ensure that he cannot touch his bare penis. I always accompany him during doctor’s appointments to ensure his hands stay away from his crotch.

Moderate Restraint

If he is moderately restrained, such as being fettered, ball and chained, or leashed to something, he may look at me freely but if we make eye contact, he must lower his gaze in submission immediately, and then slowly look back up at me. He may kiss me and touch me, but not in an overtly sexual way. I pay more attention to him, teasing, denying, and kissing him a lot more, but never give him total access to me.

High Level Restraint

In contrast, while he is kept physically restrained and fairly helpless, the touching rules are relaxed.For instance, when his fist mitts and tack booties are locked on and he can only crawl, he is free to look at me without restriction and touch me as much as he likes while being so physically helpless. He can crawl right up and bury his nose in my crotch, and suckle my breasts without fear of punishment.If he manages to get me revved up, I will spread my legs and let him pleasure me with his tongue or strap on head harness. If I don’t want his attentions, I can easily push him away, step on his head and pin him down under foot, or lock his deprivation hood on. If I’m in the mood and his chastity sentence is complete, he may even get some sexual relief himself.

He isn’t always expected to act and be treated as my pet, but when he is, this is how I control him.