Thank You For The Detailed Response!

Thank you for the detailed response!

:)  No problem.  Sometimes I’m just crazy busy and can’t do anything on Tumblr.  Othertimes its something I’m drawn to and use as a release.

I’m happy to answer any questions (almost).

We have had a similar experience trying to find the right cage. It’s either too big and doesnt stay in place, or he complains about it being too tight. I’ll have to look at the Bon4M.

Its apparently a common problem.  We went through lots of different models.  No idea if the Bon4M will fit your hubbie.

I love the idea of the whole month of October coming up!

Right?  Its totally hot!!!

But, I can see myself running into the same problems that you did.   My husband is always giving me an excuse of why the cage needs to come off.  

Ha!  You too?  Seriously, some of it is cute, but a lot of times its just irritating, and I get sick of his badgering.  Sometimes, I’m tempted to just throw him the key and tell him I’m not playing anymore.

BUT…  We’re working on our “wish lists”.  I’m writing down everything I want, he’s writing down everything he wants, and we’re going to work from there, writing back and forth to distill it to a set of rules.

My wish list is almost done, should be done in a few more days.  We set a hard deadline of Friday, but we might have it done before then.

The spanking sounds hot! I’ve never done that though, and I dont know how he would react.

That’s probably something you want to negotiate with him beforehand.  Or not.  Fuck it, he’s your husband.  Just tell him he’s a “bad boy”, spank him and see what happens.  :D