Ms Becky, Is There Any Chance Of Getting An Explanation From Yours Or Even Your Mans POV? About What

Ms Becky, Is there any chance of getting an explanation from yours or even your mans POV? About what femdom 24/7 is truly like, the nitty gritty bits that aren't as fun as my male fantasy would have me believe? A sort of fantasy vs reality kind of thing? Muchas Graciás. CincoDeMartin

Your question is based upon the assumption that there ARE nitty gritty bits that are not fun. Not sure if it’s a relief or a disappointment to you, but there are none. There’s nothing not to like about femdom. At least: not from my point of view.

How is that possible? Simple: if it’s no fun, I don’t do it; if something bores me, I do away with it. It’s really no rocket science.

I should add that while I practice femdom 24/7, that does not equate to me barking orders continuously of him kneeling at my feet etc. at all times. We have our ‘vanilla times’ - it’s just that the power dynamics will always be present, be it sometimes a little more in the background.

What about his point of view? I don’t know and I’m not going to ask him to post his views. I have been getting questions from readers about his views, his feelings, his possible misgivings and I have not answered them. Yet. For one thing because I don’t know and I am reluctant to discuss them with him. Because that might give him the idea that the terms of our relationship are negotiable, while they’re not. These terms are not fixed, but any changes are up to me alone.

However, having written this I believe I should look up those unanswered questions in my Inbox and see what I can say about them. (Probably won’t be easy and not just because I do not know all the answers - it might involve some soul-searching as well…!)