A Caregiver That Comforts You When You're Too Picky To Eat What They Made For You.

・・・・・ fictional story about my imaginary cg・・・・・

︶︶︶ ⊹ ︶︶ ୨ ♡♡♡ Morning Wid Me n My Mama ♡♡♡ ୧ ︶︶︶ ⊹ ︶︶

Deaw diawy...

I had da best da ever wid ma mama. Iz waz sooo gud (˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶) .ᐟ.ᐟ

I gotted to eep over wid her yesterday n iz was so nice n she hewped me wid da buttons on m onzie n i gotta snuggle up so close to her (˶˘ ³˘(´͈ ᵕ `͈˶) so i was tinking i would wake up next to her bu when i woke she was gone ( ˶°ㅁ°) !!

iz was so weird n i was so sad, where did she go? (๑﹏๑//) I awmost started cwying bu den i called out to her n she came in cause she was just in da kitchen ( ˶ˆᗜˆ˵ ). She said she twied to wake me to teww me she was going bu dat i was eeping too hawd

Anyways i was no sad anymoar cause she gave me pancakes!!! (っˆڡˆς) Dey had smiwey faces on dem wid chocowate chips 🍫 n stwawbewwies 🍓 N!!! She let me has ice cweam wid dem. Iz waz soo yummy 🥞🥞🥞

me waz sooo happy, waz pwetty messy so gotta cwean ma onzie (,,>﹏<,,) bu was defwnitwy wort it

hello! this is kinda different from what I normally post but I write a lot of stories about imaginary caregivers so I'm trying to form a more solid imaginary caregiver I can use for comfort

feel free to insert your own imaginary or fictional caregiver here :3

Vent about being harassed under the cut. Tw: death threats

I'm just so scared now. Ask my friends are always dismissed and I can't bring it up to anyone in my life because they won't understand the do great I feel over something that's "just online comments". They were telling me they were going to hang me. That's not okay. I didn't deserve that. I'm so scared. I'm to scared to regress right now cause I know if I see any more of those comments when little I won't be able to handle it. No one in my life has ever gone easy on me I just need someone to listen to me when I'm upset and not dismiss it. I feel so dirty, my whole body feels dirty. Before it got really bad I was dealing with it by dehumanizing myself cause that's one of the few things that give me comfort, to just set my body as an object and my mind as unnecessary. But now I feel like my whole body is dirty and worthless. I'm so scared. I wish I had someone who would protect me. I'm so scared. I'm so alone and I'm so scared

Remember those undies with the day of the week on them!!! I miss them, I wonder if they make them for adults

tips for getting out of little space when you need to. (this is what I've found works for me, something different might work better for you)

Make sure you have ways to regulate your emotions when big so you don't slip back into little space when you first get stressed again

Try to ground yourself in your body, it'll remind you of your big age

And make sure you're happy with your body so it's easier to ground yourself. For me this means putting on gender affirming gear and a really dope outfit

Put on some less child friendly music you like

Try to change your surrounding and having some spaces where you regress and others where you don't

Make sure all your toys and other agere stuff is put away and preferably out of sight

If you feel comfortable put yourself in a situation where you can't regress (eg around ppl who don't know you regress)

Try doing things that make you feel like an adult, for me this is my sport (Kendo) and writing analyses of shows I like

don't try to act older than your big age, it might just make you feel like you're 'playing' adult and make you feel more little

And remember to not force yourself de-regress unnecessarily, it's your mind's way of healing and if you can try to work on stuff you need to do while regressed.

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Affirmations for age regressors

I am a good kid

I am caring and loving

I am very cute and deserve to have my needs met

I am a good friend to all people, animals, and plants

Nobody is mad at me

Even if I do a bad thing that doesn't make me a bad kid, I just need to do better in the future

All of my friends and stuffed animals love me very much

when you write out a really long post then try to copy and paste it only you accidentally copy an empty line and erase everything :'(

'm bout to get bloodwork done and I know it's gonna be scary but sometimes they give me a juice box after so 'm gonna try to be brave and hopefully I get a juice box

caregiver with a black little that has internalized racism

always makes sure to put on shows with good black rep and buy books with black characters

does your hair all pretty in cornrows or box braids and adds colourful beads to it

always reassured you you're a good kid no matter what others assume about you

and that your skin and black features are very pretty

loves making your 'non-typical' agere meals that are a bunch of Jamaican foods (/foods from your ethnicity) your mom used to make for you

will do as much as possible to keep you away from the news when regressed

will NOT let anyone tell you that pastels don't look good on you

they're try to reassure you you don't need to worry about racism and stuff cause they'll protect you but sometimes they have to admit they can't protect you from everything and just let you cry in their arms

will teach you about strong black figures

helps you reconnect with parts of your culture your parents didn't share with you like reggae music

if you're African they'll wrap you in a bunch of African prints and celebrate Kwanzaa with you

Shoutout to age regressors who are just so anti authoritarian they can't handle having a cg who gives them rules and if their cg tries they immediately start an uprising. "chu wiww be heawing fwum my union wep, mr. cuddles!" I wiww not stand dis!!!!