I Think It's Important To Let Guys Be Gender Non Conforming Without Telling Them They're A Girl, Cause

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Finally taking part in dracula daily thx to @re-dracula 's AMAAAAZING podcast.

This shit kinda gay! 👀

NYT article abt goncharov has comments like 'what is the purpose of this film's existence these kids are just lying' motherfucker how do you think our ancestors survived. how do you think folklore formed. culture. music. art. PURPOSE????? do you think everything must be commodified? sold? weighed to be valued? has the rot in your soul spread so far you cannot find value in anything not spoken in numbers??? it's FUN. THAT'S WHY. THE PURPOSE IS THE ACT, THE MESSAGE IS THE MEDIUM, THE SYMBOL IS THE STORY. it brings people joy for its mere existence and that IS the point. existence is its purpose alone

stop pathologizing everything oh my goddddd

Add PluralKit to your goddamn servers. There is no fucking excuse. I'm so tired of asking and being told no for bullshit reasons. You're a moderator. Moderate your goddamn server.

Do not deny accessibility options for people just because someone might abuse it.

I have never seen someone actually misuse PluralKit or TupperBox for nefarious purposes. The only instance it's been misused in our recollection is when it was used to roleplay, to which we asked them to stop and they did.

Just admit you're fucking ableist and move on. I actually hate you. If you don't add PluralKit when asked, I genuinely hate you

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Look, I get it. I used to be firmly in the camp of "you're not a top, you're 15" too. But we really need to accept the fact people under 18 have sex. And more than that, people under 18 have and participate in kinks.

And I see a lot of pro kink people spouting anti sex propaganda about this kind of stuff. If we don't educate people, that doesn't stop them from participating in kink. Whether you like it or not, underage people can and will participate in kink.

And I don't think the best course of action is trying to block them from every kink space.

Should they be interacting and engaging with adults in that way? No, I don't think so.

But at the same time, they need education and resources just as much as anyone else. Even adults need those things in kink, younger and more inexperienced people need them even more.

What blocking every single source of kink from minors does is create minors participating in unsafe kink.

LETS FUCKING GOOOOOO

The No Fly List isn’t a laughing matter and you all need to but down your “it/she lesbian catgirl hacked the government” memes for 5 fucking seconds and see that this is a massive exposition of the US government’s deeply entrenched racism and xenophobia that rips away people’s basic human rights and presumption of innocence. Everyone KNOWS that the US has severe issues involving the treatment of Southwest Asians and muslims, issues severe enough to pillage civilians for oil and destroy entire cultural monuments and history that cannot be ignored, and yet you all choose to look the other way anyways. If you all really gave half a fuck about tearing down imperialism and colonization as you say you do, you would do the bare minimum and acknowledge that 10% of the names on there are “Muhammed”. That there are CHILDREN on this list, because their name betrayed them and is used against them to accuse them of suspected terrorism. You would point how someone just exposed the US for violating basic rights everyone should have on a massive scale, how this airline wasn’t even supposed to have this list, and you would talk about it instead of saying “holy fucking bingle!”.

We need to learn when to put down our memes and face the reality that we can no longer avoid. We cannot stand idly by while we watch one of the world’s massive, most powerful governments mark people as terrorist with almost no procedure as to who can be put on there because of someone’s race and religion. We can’t keep avoiding the legacy that 9/11′s justification of going to war has created. We can’t keep avoiding the way that elected officials, especially Trump, have openly and proudly confessed to supporting things like this. We also need to acknowledge how lucky we are that this didn’t get into the wrong person’s hands, because it very easily could have. This isn’t funny, this is vile, and by laughing and not actually caring, we’re only serving to help this continue.

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