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Hub blog for @heylookitsghost this is my main. I also run @a-romantic--aromantic , and some emoji blogs linked in @little-emoji-archivist.

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Look, I get it. I used to be firmly in the camp of "you're not a top, you're 15" too. But we really need to accept the fact people under 18 have sex. And more than that, people under 18 have and participate in kinks.

And I see a lot of pro kink people spouting anti sex propaganda about this kind of stuff. If we don't educate people, that doesn't stop them from participating in kink. Whether you like it or not, underage people can and will participate in kink.

And I don't think the best course of action is trying to block them from every kink space.

Should they be interacting and engaging with adults in that way? No, I don't think so.

But at the same time, they need education and resources just as much as anyone else. Even adults need those things in kink, younger and more inexperienced people need them even more.

What blocking every single source of kink from minors does is create minors participating in unsafe kink.

The talk I gave tonight was primarily about how babies, as well as young children, experience hyperconsciousness, something that is often considered one of the main reasons why children at these stages are ‘difficult’ to handle.

Kids man, they encompass some of the most phenomenal thought processes and it is all driven by the fact that this whole world is completely new to them. If you want to see abstract ideas constructed in a matter of seconds, talk to a child. Their grasp is unbelievable.

Even if you feel that children whine, cry, and scream too much… in considering how they’re in a world they had no prior concept of, and are subject to an uncontrollable amount of stimuli every waking moment…. I still believe they’re handling it all fairly well.

This conference made me realize how much of a passion I have for destigmatizing childhood behaviors. There’s a sort of ‘Ahh..’ moment that people come to when they see that children actually have reasons for everything they do, that they shouldn’t be viewed as underdeveloped ‘functioning’ adults but should instead be recognized as humans in a separate yet equally important stage of life.

I’ve also been doing some work in researching and writing about children as an oppressed class, I’m finding ways to incorporate my previous sentiments into that.

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Obsessed with animals that don’t immediately understand something and just tilt their head about it. Does it make any more sense at a 45° angle, bud?