Tiktok May Be Getting Banned Again In A Month, But I'm Honestly Happy Because I Hate The Antis On There.

I love being the hype non-judgemental friend. You think you're an old diety from ancient times? Okay girl that makes sense, have you seen yourself!!

something that proshippers do that i wish they didn’t: defend their shipping, hobbies or interests to people that demand them to. in what world is it ok to go up to a person irl who’s wearing idk? band shirt? and demand them to explain why they like that band.

alongside this, EXPLAINING YOUR TRAUMA TO THEM? NO. you have nothing to defend! you do not need a justification!

just delete the anon, delete their messages, report and block them. ❤️

“i’m a proshipper!” 😁

“i’m a proshipper who ban evades and sends antis death threats!” 😨⁉️

I think antis need to understand that we can differentiate between fiction and reality and that what we enjoy in fiction doesn't mean we condone or want it in real life.

Like, I'm a sucker for certain incest ships, but that doesn't mean I want to fuck my mom or anyone else in my family.

I'm also a huge slut for age-gap relationships and abusive dynamics, but that doesn't mean I'm interested in going after someone significantly older or younger than me, and it doesn't mean that I want to be abused myself.

Being proship means that we enjoy things that are problematic in FICTION because of the entertainment/comfort/whatever other value they provide for us and that it is not always a reflection of what we believe or desire.

thinking about f/os experiencing cuteness aggression... f/os who will wake you up from a nap with cuddles and kisses because you were just too cute to not bother, f/os squealing as they hold you tightly like a teddy bear, f/os doing slightly annoying things throughout the day like ruffling your hair or poking your cheek because they just can't help themselves when it comes to you <3

If a groomer uses proship content to groom someone, it is not proshippers fault. It is the groomers fault. Proshippers are not groomers, but some groomers are proship and use content to groom people. That does not mean the content shouldn't be made or shared. Groomers shouldn't exist, and most proshippers hate them, but we do not control other people's actions.

Sincerest apologies if you were groomed by a proshipper. But that does not mean all proshippers are groomers.

Antis care about victims until they cope in a way they don't like

Just saw a tiktok of someone seething and mad that people spread "misinformation" that proshipping is just "don't like don't read".

Went on to say proshippers are all pedophiles and groomers, that justify CSEM.

How are you going to go on a full rant about misinformation and doing research to confirm somethings meaning only to then spread misinformation yourself.

no person should be afraid of their friends and the things they could do. no one should feel the need to appease to someone else's tastes lest they be scapegoated to hell and back for having different opinions. no one should have to hide in fear of being harassed and chased out of a community based on their fictional preferences.

if you fear what your friends could say or do to you, then are they really worth keeping?

if they'd ditch you in a heartbeat for being a proshipper, are they really your friends? is it worth hiding in fear and shame forever?

it's quite odd to me that people assume all proshippers are predatory when all the proshippers i've met care deeply about online safety, advocate against irl abuse, and understand the importance of setting boundaries. i have witnessed more kindness here than any other community i've been in.