Tell Me What You Enjoyed!

What if it could be, baby girl? All the sweet and tender things. All the dirty and naughty things. Which would you crave more? The cuddles and kisses? The collar and the leash? The soft strokes and tender kisses. Or the hard strokes and strong grasp claiming your delicate flesh? Would you pick one over the other? Would you want them both? The soft and sweet leading to the hard and rough. Leading back to the soft and tender. Over and over until you are destroyed, wasted, spent! A quivering mess im daddy’s arms. Ready to be pieced back together again. Ready to be rebuilt with daddy’s love and need for you. What if all that could be?

What if everything you imagined could be real this Valentine’s Day Little One?

What should I do if my boyfriend isn’t really that kinky but I am?

Hi there! That’s a good question! It can be really tricky introducing your kinks to your significant other depending on just what they are! Some are pretty easy and some a bit harder like lifestyle kinks such as Dd/lg or D/s. Without knowing what those kinks are I can give you some general advice, at least from my perspective and experience.

Start easy and build up! When you and your bf are being intimate try suggesting one of your simpler kinks to him! Just ask him for it, or tell him you would love it if he tried xxx. If he’s really into you and into pleasing you he will probably jump at it eagerly! He should want to please you just as much as you want to please him! If that goes well then slowly add stuff to the equation. Hopefully he will start opening up and telling you some of his kinks too! Ideally you want a relationship where you can both share your desires and fantasies openly without any worry of being judged or rejected. If your boyfriend isn’t receptive to those suggestions, doesn’t seem interested in returning those pleasures or learning about what excites you then that’s not a good sign for long terms satisfaction! You don’t want a selfish or inattentive lover! I imagine you are a pretty giving soul and you need to find someone that wants to give to you just as much! I can’t even begin to stress how important that is!

If you are talking about more lifestyle kinks not just in bed there are some things you can do there too. Hopefully you know already if your boyfriend is inclined towards your kinks. For example if it’s dd/lg does he like to take care of you and spoil you? Is he always checking on you and making sure you’re ok? If he’s shown he’s already a caregiver then it’s just a matter of introducing him to what your needs are and slowly introducing the terminology. Ask him to watch Disney movies with you while you cuddle. Ask him to play board games or to sit and color with you! Have him go shopping with you for stuffies or cute blankies. Hopefully that will lead to more open discussions about your little needs and how he can support you! If he isn’t into that or doesn’t like the whole caregiver thing then that’s another sign that maybe this isn’t the right relationship for you!

I know it can be so hard to find someone in real life when you can’t share your links or interests openly. This is especially true for Dd/lg and D/s. There are so many misconceptions about it and what it means to be in one of those relationships. Most people don’t understand that at its core it isn’t a sexual thing but an emotional thing, a caregiving and support thing! Be patient and keep trying! Introduce them slowly and be honest about your needs! Don’t sacrifice yourself and your needs to be what you think your significant other wants or needs! Be true to yourself and don’t accept anything less than you want and deserve!

Can you write a story with a virgin? 🙈😍

Ohhhh he he. Yes I can. That would be a fun story to write. Give me a few days to work on it and I’ll post something I hope you’ll like. Thank you for the suggestion! I always love them. 😘

Covid sucks. Lost a friend today. 😔😢

Truth!!! Show me those curves, those luscious thighs! Show me the real you! Show me that sexy attitude, that sense of humor! Show me what a naughty, hungry little thing you! Let me hear those desires and fantasies! Share those insecurities and worries! Those fears and misgivings! I want it all, baby girl! I want the real you! Not the one you show to the rest of the world! That brave face, that protected heart! I want the one you keep hidden! The one you protect! I will cherish her, protect her and keep her safe! Let me see that side of you! That’s what I want, baby girl! Will you?

Keeping it real...

He gave her a space where she knew she was safe. Where she could blossom and bloom into her true self. A place where she could let go. Where she could open up and expose the beauty and perfection within knowing that she would be cherished and loved.

He gave her freedom to live without fear. He accepted her just as she was. In all her perfection. In all her flaws. Even with all of his.

He helped her to see her beauty. To believe in it. To feel it deep down in her soul. To understand that the beauty was within her all the time.

She didn’t need him for this. The strength was within her to begin with. But she yearned for him. Yearned to share it all with him and to give him the control, her submission, and to let him help her expose it all to world.

“There’s a Method. His Method. And It Takes Time and Trust.”

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Those intimate moments are the best. Getting lost in each others caress. Letting the world melt away as you lay there vibing together, talking about the anything and everything, or just laying in silence while you marvel at the comforting feel of your partner’s body against yours.