౨ৎ‧₊˚ They'll Message You After A Post Talking About How Sad And Ill You Are Too?? Can They

i absolutely love when i know my friends extremely well and i tell/show/send/give them something that reflects that i know them extremely well and they say “wow! i love this thing!” and you get say i know, i know you extremely well :)

to be known is to be loved but also to know is to love!!!

Yeah you could say I’m doing numbers on tumblr. And that numbers? One

I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned “forever” into the only acceptable definition of success.

Like… if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it’s a “failed” business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don’t actually want to keep doing that, you’re a “failed” writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it’s a “failed” marriage.

The only acceptable “win condition” is “you keep doing that thing forever”. A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a “real” friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a “phase” - or, alternatively, a “pity” that you don’t do that thing any more. A fandom is “dying” because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.

I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it’s okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success… I don’t think that’s doing us any good at all.

everyday i mourn that there will be no szn 3 of arcane

a lesbians canon event is falling in love w/ ur bsf

𝜗𝜚 *₊˚ ɪɴᴛʀᴏᴅᴜᴄᴛɪᴏɴ

ABUK (a-bu-k)

she/her. wlw. single. 16. 🇨🇦🇸🇸.

bigoted ppl dni !

ABOUT ME ᶻ 𝗓 𐰁 .ᐟ + selfies

♪ ༘⋆ fav artists / genres

bikini kill. ethel cain. mitski. indigo de souza. system of a down. adrianne lenker. car seat headrest. phoebe bridgers. leith ross. whatever, dad. big thief. dandelion hands. destroy boys.

^ rock. alt indie. indie pop

★ ︵ fav media

arcane (caitlyn’s biggest hater), mw2, dr. house, girl, interrupted, all the bright places, pearl, american psycho

on my to watchlist:

yellowjackets, bojack horseman, interstellar, tlou gameplays, a ton of video essay’s

..i really dont watch shows, recommendations in my ask r welcomed

₊˚⊹ ᰔ hobbies

art, makeup, sewing, reading occasionally, writing, rblx 😛

wanna get into crochet but im broke

selfie down below

American boy dolls look like butchs

Peak transition goals ladies and gentlhands

hehe gimme wlw requests for fanfics !!

i do:

life is strange

the last of us

arcane

yellow jackets , etc

sun bleached flies — ethel cain

open tag.. if you see this you’re forced to repost n do it i fear 💔

ATTENTION

If you see this you are OBLIGATED to reblog w/ the song currently stuck in your head :)